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50 Unfriendly F-Words You Can Say Instead

Updated on September 11, 2016
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Blessed are those who never even think of the word! However, many sensitive, old-fashioned, moral-minded people live in neighborhoods where the most offensive F-word is as common as a greeting.

What other word can fill the blank?

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They can turn off a movie or close a book to avoid the word, but it is not as easy to move out of the neighborhood. They are bombarded with foul language expressed by:

  • ex-spouses venting anger at each other in public,
  • beer buddies trying for the reputation of “baddest” cusser,
  • drunkards who should be swearing at themselves swearing at each other,
  • men and women simply being disrespectful,
  • children repeating the word they heard on television.

F-Word Dilemma

There is a story of a woman who never used the offensive F-word. In her old age, she began to lose control of her brain, and she claimed that the word was always on the tip of her tongue. It was a continual struggle for her not to say it.

Her counselor said that because she had heard it all her life, her hippocampus (memory indexer for the brain) had filed it away, and made it a part of her long term memory.

"Despite our everyday impressions of forgetting, it seems likely that long-term memory . . . can store a seemingly unlimited amount of information almost indefinitely."3

These are not neighborhoods where swearing supports Psychologist Timothy Jay’s claim1 of “higher verbal intelligence.” These residents have heard that word all their lives, and even if they consider not using it, they have no reference to any other.

Still, they are being unfair to the unwilling hearers, because an experiment done by another psychologist Don MacKay found that hearing the word “makes all of us vulnerable to a mental assault . . . as if we were strapped to a chair and could be given a punch or a shock at any time.2

May we suggest substitute, unfriendly words which can be appropriately used with similar contempt? Meanings are added for those who might be interested in learning something new. If just one person in the group can introduce a new word, and begin to use it just for fun, it may make a huge difference.


20 F-Words for Describing People

Number
F-Word
Meaning
1
facetious
not being serious about a serious subject
2
faltering
not decisive, walking unsteadily
3
fanatical
overly enthusiastic
4
fastidious
hard to please
5
fatalistic
believing that nothing will change
6
fiery
hot tempered
7
filthy
dirty, unpleasant
8
flabby
saggy, out of shape
9
flatulent
having gassy stomach and bowels
10
flighty
inconsistent, undependable
11
fractious
easily upset, often complaining
12
frantic
extremely emotional
13
fraudulent
dishonest
14
fresh (colloquial)
disrespectful, over-confident
15
fretful
fussy, irritable, touchy
16
frigid
unfriendly, forbidding
17
funky
having an offensive smell
18
furious
extremely angry
19
furtive
secretive, probably dishonest
20
fusty
old-fashioned in ideas and beliefs

Nobody wants this frumpy dog.

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10 F-Words for Describing Animals

Number
F-Word
Meaning
1
fatuous
foolish, stupid
2
fearsome
very frightening
3
ferocious
fierce, violent
4
fetid
having an offensive smell
5
fiendish
very cruel
6
foul
having an unpleasant smell
7
freakish
unusual in an unpleasant way
8
frenetic
wild, uncontrollable
9
frustrating
irritating
10
frumpy
old and unattractive

10 F-Words for Describing Things (from ideas to objects)

Number
F-Word
Meaning
1
faded
less bright, losing strength
2
fake
false, phony
3
fallacious
misleading, incorrect
4
faulty
not perfect
5
fishy
suspicious, probably not true
6
flaccid
deficient, not firm, not stiff
7
flavorless
bland, tasteless
8
flimsy
easy to break, not solid
9
foggy
not clear, confusing
10
fusty
dusty with unpleasant smell

"Forget you."

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10 F-Words for Use as Verbs

Number
F-Word
Meaning
1
faze (you)
stay upset
2
fire (you)
dismiss yourself, leave
3
flip . . . .
go berserk, lose your temper
4
floor . . . .
confound you
5
flounder . . . .
show how clumsy you are
6
foil . . . .
sabotage yourself
7
fold . . . .
collapse
8
forget . . . .
consider yourself worthless
9
fret . . . .
worry
10
fumble . . . .
go mess up, muddle up yourself

References

1. Hawkins, Tommy: Medical Daily, Bad Words (January 11, 2016).

2. Pinker, Steven: New Republic, What the F (October 8, 2007).

3. Mastin, Luke: The Human Memory, Long Term Memory (Copyright 2010).

Benefits of Using Another Word

  1. Any other contemptuous word is a more accurate expression than the general one.
  2. The user’s vocabulary improves.
  3. The user gets some brain exercise.
  4. The strange word may introduce some humor, enhance the mood and curb the disrespect.


© 2016 Dora Isaac Weithers

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      Word 5 months ago from Chicago

      Hi Dora, this was extra interesting reading. Thank you for sharing the alternative F- words to use. Very cleverful.

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      Eric Dierker 5 months ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. I have much fun in this area. I got this fun degree from university. Linguistic Philosophy. Part of the study was that we are really what words we use. We think in words. What is our thinking -- cussing?

      And. My mom and Dad took off to New York for a lover's getaway and a convention. Mom brought in a disturbed Preacher man - her cousin to watch over us kids. I used "darn". He said it was a polite cuss word. He actually beat me and washed my mouth out with soap and made me stand in a cold shower to cleanse me.

      Hi hi hi my dad did the same to him when he got home. My dad was a Jesuit.

      Thanks for bringing this up. We can do better.

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      FlourishAnyway 5 months ago from USA

      Fantastic! I love the creativity and the challenge to be better people when it comes to language and manners. I used to know someone who would say, "Shut the front door!" Instead of the f version of hush up.

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      Shannon 5 months ago from Texas

      A couple of other slang words come to mind: flippin' and freakin'. I used to tell people I didn't give a flying fig about something if I was irritated and didn't care. I still do something times. You made me think of a video I used in one of my hubs about "Christian cuss words" by a Christian comedian. He asked his fans to submit their substitute words just to see. Actually, I thought at first you had maybe quoted him because I saw the Tommy Hawkins reference. The comedian's name is Tim Hawkins.

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      Jackie Lynnley 5 months ago from The Beautiful South

      This is great, what a horrible word the F-word is and as much as I have tried to tell myself in life it is just a word...still! I hope many take your advice because I sure would love the day I never hear it again!

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Word, thanks for your feedback. Glad you approve.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Eric, I bet that area of study is interesting. Thanks for sharing your experience with that "Polite cuss word." Sorry about the cleansing but it made me giggle.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Flourish, that version must have caused some laughs even while it worked. So you see, the need to do or say something different makes some people creative.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Shanmarie, I like your words and may even use them myself. What a coincidence between the names of those two men. Wonder if I can find Tim on YouTube. Thanks for sharing.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Jackie, I'm also tired of hearing that word. I'm hoping that some teacher, big brother, mentor or someone who feels like we do will actually suggest my list to his or her group.

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      Shannon 5 months ago from Texas

      You should be able to find him on YouTube and that video I was talking about too. Just search for "Christian curse words" and it will probably come up just by that, but you can also search using his name.

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      Eric Dierker 5 months ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      My darling Dora -- it is wonderful to grow up. I hear there are folk that don't like it. Heaven help me.

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      Sally Gulbrandsen 5 months ago from Norfolk

      MsDora

      It seems to me that people have replaced the b-word with the f-word and it has become the norm. It assaults all of my senses and it still amazes me that people actually use it in public, young or old and yet I can still remember how shocked I was when I first heard it. You provide some wonderful alternatives but wouldn't it be nice if people took heed of the 'fresh' alternatives you provide here. Call me old fashioned!

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      Lori Colbo 5 months ago from Pacific Northwest

      I have two neighbors, one on both sides of me who us ever filthy word in the book, with expertise in the f-bomb and it prompted me to write a hub on it. I love your lists.

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      John Hansen 5 months ago from Queensland Australia

      MsDora, thank you for sharing these alternative "F" words. If I have to use anything ... I tend to say "fish eggs"..pretty silly but it works.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Thanks, Shanmarie. Searched for and found Christian curse words. Yea, a new, interesting vocabulary altogether.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Eric, I'm with you. We are always the best age there is.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Sally, you're too young to be old-fashioned. You're just sensible and responsible. Thanks for your feedback.

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      Bill Holland 5 months ago from Olympia, WA

      What a clever approach to this topic. Nicely done, Dora. Now I have some options. LOL

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Lori, thanks for your endorsement. I know the horror of having neighbors who offend like this. You have to drown them out with music sometimes.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Jodah, you already have your word, and it's great that it works for you. Yours may be funny, but much more acceptable than a word that is offensive. Thanks for sharing.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Bill, thanks for your feedback. I'm smiling too.

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      Shauna L Bowling 5 months ago from Central Florida

      Dora, I love the title and theme of this hub. These words should be embedded in the "automatic pilot" part of our brains as alternatives to what is spoken far too easily.

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      Cynthia 5 months ago from Vancouver Island, Canada

      My dear friend, this hub is far-out and funny. My feedback: this is just the sort of fascinating word-focused article that my grammatically fine-tuned friends have been waiting to find. I will forward it widely and freely.

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      Chitrangada Sharan 5 months ago from New Delhi, India

      This is so interesting and I will keep in mind the alternatives! Never thought about it this way.

      Thanks for an interesting read!

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Thanks, Shauna. Your suggestion is noteworthy. It may take some effort, but it is worth the try, for long-term satisfaction.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Cynthia, so glad that you find the article worthy of sharing. Thanks to you and your friends.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Chitrangada, happy to present something new to think about. Thanks for your feedback.

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      manatita44 5 months ago from london

      For some reason, I just did not grow up that way. Not smoking, not drinking, not eating pepper ... I include this because Caribbean people do all three.

      I used the F word not so long ago. I was under severe stress but I still do not know how it came out. Probably my first time in 64 years! This supports your theory that it stays in the memory.

      A very nice choice of words. I know them all except for 'fusty.' A bit like some that stand next to us on trains, eh? (chuckle) Nice Hub.

      Did I see your name in the Awards? In fact I'm sure I did. Congrats, Sis.

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      Jill Spencer 5 months ago from United States

      Wow, I didn't see this article coming from you, MsDora. Sounds like you're FED UP! Shared.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Manitata, some Caribbean do all three (emphasis on some); we don't want others to expect that from all of us. Anyway, some of us (including you) were brought up by responsibly.

      About that word, some people wonder where it came from, or like you, how it came out. Thanks for affirming that it stays in the memory. It can happen to the best of us.

      Did you notice that "fusty" can be used for people and things with a slightly different shade of meaning?

      Thanks as always for your encouragement. Haven't seen the Awards yet.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Jill, you read me correctly. Glad my upset shows. Thanks for your feedback.

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      manatita44 5 months ago from london

      Yes, Dear. I miss that one. A big mistake. I won't like others to think this of us. So many West Indians in my day did not follow this Path! Buy yes, some liked rum, after all we produce cane, and strong spicy foods. Few were smokers and I don't think I saw a female smoking until I travelled.

      You mean like a 'fusty' old woman, or a 'fusty' old .... you see, I just don't do swear (smile)

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Manatita, you amuse me. Thanks for the smile. I know that there were female smokers, but they did not allow the children to see them smoking. With regard to such things, I think that you and I turned out pretty well. Thank God!

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      manatita44 5 months ago from london

      Praise Him indeed!!

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      Heidi Thorne 5 months ago from Chicago Area

      Well, this is fantastically (hey, that's an "F" word!) helpful. :) Sharing.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Thanks, Heidi. Of course, your word is helpful. Sometimes the offenders even those their word to describe something good. Thanks for sharing.

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      Linda Crampton 5 months ago from British Columbia, Canada

      You thought of a great idea for an article, MsDora. I love your collections of F-Words. They are interesting and potentially very useful!

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      peachy 5 months ago from Home Sweet Home

      oh there are so many F words that are not in my list, let alone using them, thanks for sharing

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      peachy 5 months ago from Home Sweet Home

      thanks for sharing, so many F words i had learn today

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Thanks, Alicia. Hope others will find them useful too.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      PeachPurple, there's always another word to learn. Thanks for your feedback.

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      William Kovacic 5 months ago from Pleasant Gap, PA

      I think you covered the bases on this one. I especially liked how you wrapped it up with Benefits of Using Another Word. Another job, well done, Dora!

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Pastor Bill, thanks for your commendation. Good to hear from you.

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      Denise W Anderson 5 months ago from Bismarck, North Dakota

      Our family tried this in our home. We substituted words such as "Sugar" or "Salt" for swear words. At first, it just made us laugh, but in the end, we all benefited from the vocabulary change!

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Denise, thanks for sharing that substitutes can and do work! I can imagine the fun it is in a family setting.

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      Faith Reaper 5 months ago from southern USA

      How creative and useful, MsDora! I can't stand to hear that F-word. It just seems to lower their IQ ...at least in my mind. What's popular now in online writing is to use the letters W T F ...so I will respond, What the Faith. ...is going on. I'm sure they are rolling their eyes at me, but that's ok.

      I hope everyone takes your advice and increases their vocabulary!

      Good for you.

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      Judy Specht 5 months ago from California

      Fabulouse use of "F" words. Love this hub. If more people actually said what they meant instead of grunting F-bombs we would all have better relationships.

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      Devika Primić 5 months ago from Dubrovnik, Croatia

      A great thought here for this hub! You got me thinking and I see why! The F-word is tricky.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Faith, I didn't roll my eyes. I smiled. That's a good one. Thanks for sharing.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Judy, thanks for mentioning relationships. Most don't think about the positive effect of straightforward communication; and even less about how listening relatives are affected.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Devika, thanks for your feedback. We have to find a better way.

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      Dianna Mendez 5 months ago

      This is such a nice way to suggest alternatives for those harsh metaphors and explicit language references. I learned a few new words today as well. Blessings, dear lady.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 5 months ago from The Caribbean

      Thanks, Teaches. There are just so many words which don't get uses, although they would be more effective.

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      Kyriaki Chatzi 3 months ago

      Well, that sure is a new perspective! :)

      I will try and keep those alternatives in mind next time someone pushes my buttons.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 3 months ago from The Caribbean

      Kyriaki, please be ready with the words you choose. Someone else might follow your lead. Thanks for reading and commenting.

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      Peg Cole 6 weeks ago from Dallas, Texas

      That is so interesting about words staying in our memories. I worked around some people years ago whose use of the word was frequent and ferocious. With time, it became commonplace in my vocabulary as well, despite the fact that I was raised quite differently than to use strong language. I still battle the slip of the tongue that happens when sudden pain, or surprise or anger fills the moment. Thanks for these alternatives.

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      Dora Isaac Weithers 6 weeks ago from The Caribbean

      Peg, thanks for sharing from your own experience. It's frustrating to have a word that you hate pop up in your mind. It takes maturity and consideration for those who say it to refrain when in good company. I appreciate your input.

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