The Smiles We Left Behind

Updated on April 15, 2019
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My name is Ruby, and I live in southern Il. I love to write rhyme, poetry, and fiction.

Jackie, my son.
Jackie, my son.

Time Passes So Fast

It seems like only yesterday when you were just a little cotton head boy

We grew up together, like two kids enjoying a new found toy

So many memories returning, like the time you were stung multiple times when you had to see the beehive that appeared overnight in our back yard tree

I remember grabbing you and rushing to the hospital, feeling sure you would forever be an amputee

I remember your first day at school, you wouldn't let me leave

So, I stayed all day, you looking back, checking if I was still there and looking so relieved

I remember the day we went to the gym to select the musical instrument you thought you had to own

The anger on your face when the salesman mistook me for a student and asked me what I wanted to play, your comment " You don't look like a student. What you gonna' do order a trombone?

Those were all happy days, childhood, high school, your first love, your first car

That made you the happiest by far

My first grandchild, what a wonderful gift of love

Now you've gone home to heaven to find new strength above

Your terrible cancer fought a persistent battle and won

You're now in heaven mingling with loved ones and having some much needed fun

My life will go on and I'll forever miss your smile

But we'll see each other again, watch for me just for a little while.





This was Jackie and Catie's song

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    • always exploring profile imageAUTHOR

      Ruby Jean Richert 

      8 days ago from Southern Illinois

      Thank you Patricia. My world turned upside down when I lost my son. It is a blessing when someone like you read my story and comment. Thank you for prayers.

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      Patricia Scott 

      9 days ago from sunny Florida

      O I am so sorry. I know about cancer ravaging a family. I cannot know your exact pain but I can empathize. One day at a time....many Angels and blessings and prayers are headed your way this evening ps

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      3 weeks ago from Southern Illinois

      Thank you Sara for keeping me in your prayers. I appreciate you very much. God's blessing to you.

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      SARA 

      3 weeks ago from Islamabad

      Time never heals the loss of your loved ones. Being a mother it's quite unbelievable to accept this reality.

      When my son was born...he spent 7 days in ICU. Allah Almighty gave him new life alhamdulillah...That time was very tough for me.

      No one can fill that emptiness in your heart but yeah I will always remember you in my prayers.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      3 weeks ago from Southern Illinois

      Thank you Sara. He passed away on Jan. 17 and I still cry everyday. They say that time heals. When I think of him not ever coming to visit me is the worst. My faith sustains me. I will see him again. Blessings my friend.

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      SARA 

      3 weeks ago from Islamabad

      I have no words to say.. because for the parents it's so hard to see their children in pain and...

      You are a strong woman I must say.

      Your grandson must be your reason to smile again.

      Stay blessed always

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      6 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Oh Catie, I think you two not being able to be together is almost as sad as his death. I was so happy to put the song on. Thank you for leaving a beautiful comment, and yes, we all will be together some day. Love you...

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      Catie 

      6 months ago from Florida

      Dear Ruby, I love your poems. Thank you for posting Jackie's and my song. We use to listen to it and sing it to each other every night. We also listened to it when we missed each other during the hours we were a part. It is an old song, and as we grew to love each other this song fit us so well. When I sent it to Jackie, he cried. He never heard it before. We couldn't stand to be a part even in the hours of slumber. Oh, Ruby I miss him so much, I am crying right now. He was the perfect man for me. I wished I had many years to still be with him. He is safe in God's arms and we will see him again one day. Until then my tears will flow. Love you, Catie

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      6 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Hello Dianna. Yes, memories are wonderful. Your comment was heartfelt. Thank you so much.

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      Dianna Mendez 

      6 months ago

      This is a sweet tribute to your son. So sorry for your great loss. Our memories help us celebrate the wonderful people who pass on.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      6 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Hello Harish. I feel the loss everyday and still cry at times, but time is helping me to heal, and I know he's with God and I will see him again someday. Your kind words of faith is very much appreciated..

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      Harish Mamgain 

      6 months ago from New Delhi , India

      Ruby , what a wonderful expression of bond , a lovely tribute by a doting mother to her adorable and dear son Jackie. You brought me tears with your words. I 'am really sorry for your loss , and pray to Almighty to give all peace to the dear departed soul !

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      6 months ago from Southern Illinois

      John, to be perfectly honest, I don't remember, but I know you are always faithful to read and comment on anything I write. Thank you so much. You are a friend indeed. Hugs.

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      John Hansen 

      6 months ago from Queensland Australia

      Ruby, I know I read this and left a comment but it seems to have disappeared (as comments sometimes do here). Anyway, again my condolences and this was a lovely and fitting tribute to your son Jackie.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      6 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Hello Pamela, nice to meet you. Thank you for coming to read about the loss of my son Jackie. Thank you for the follow. I will follow you too.

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      always exploring 

      6 months ago

      Hello Pamela, nice to meet you. Thank you for coming to read about the loss of my son Jackie and thanks for the follow. I will do the same...

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      Pamela Oglesby 

      6 months ago from Sunny Florida

      I am so sorry to read of the loss of your son. I have always thought that is not a pain a mother should have to endure. I do believe when heaven is a wonderful place with no pain, no fear as the Bible states. I wish you well and will be happy to follow you on Hubpages.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Thank you Nell. I miss having him to talk to, we were so close. Life goes on. Take care my friend.

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      Nell Rose 

      7 months ago from England

      Dear Ruby, I am so sorry. I was wondering just the other day that we hadn't seen you for a while. sending my prayers and best wishes.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Dear Martie, I fully agree with your comment, we will live with a deep hurt that will last a lifetime. Thank God that we have the faith of a life after death and we will see all our loved ones again. I have so many to reunite with. I am the only one left of twelve children. My sister Mary just died a couple of months ago. It was a double whammy when Jackie passed, I was still grieving and missing Mary. We were so close. Thank you for always coming to encourage and offer words of wisdom. You were among the first Hubbers I grew close to, can you believe it's been 9 years? Take care, lots of hugs...

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      My sweet Catie, so happy to see you. Jackie was fully aware that you loved him and I did too. You are all he talked about until he was unable to speak. It was a double hurt that he couldn't be with you, but our faith will take us to heaven to see him again. What a wonderful day that will be!! I hope you are feeling better. I hope you will write on this site. God bless. Hugs

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      Martie Coetser 

      7 months ago from South Africa

      Dearest Ruby, my heart goes out to you. I believe the most difficult thing for a mother to do is coming to terms with the loss of a child. I don't believe she ever succeed, although she will learn how to live with a hole filled with nostalgia in her soul while looking forward to the reunion.

      Take care, my dear friend!

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      Catie 

      7 months ago from Florida

      Dear Ruby: I love what you wrote about your dear Jackie! I learned a few new things about his youth. It just makes me love him even more. My love grows for him still, even though he is in spirit form now. He has a piece of my heart with him there and I will hold a piece of his heart with me forever here. Love, Catie

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Hello Linda, so nice to hear from you. Your words bring comfort. thank you so much. Blessings my friend. Hugs

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      Linda Rogers 

      7 months ago from Minnesota

      So heart breaking to hear of the loss of your son. He is still with you & watching over you until it is your time to join him. Blessings my friend.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Hello Peggy, so nice to see you. We were really close. I was eighteen when he was born, in a way, we grew up together. I get mad all over again when I think he didn't see about the soreness on his back as soon as it happened. I didn't know about it until he was diagnosed with cancer. I love your comment. The thought of him waiting for me with open arms makes me happy, Thank you so very much. Hugs

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      Peggy Woods 

      7 months ago from Houston, Texas

      I am so very sorry for your loss, Ruby. The grave will never end your loving relationship with your son. It sounds like the two of you were really close. He just got to the end goal ahead of you, but will be awaiting your arrival with open arms. Virtual hugs to you.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Shauna, That's what I did. Thank you for coming back to tell me. I've been gone so long I got in a hurry...Hugs

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      Shauna L Bowling 

      7 months ago from Central Florida

      Ruby, we can and do still comment individually. You need to approve each comment, leave your comment, then approve the next one. If you approve a few of them at once, you only get one comment box for yourself.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      I see the comment section has changed since I've been absent, not a place for me to comment individually. Thank you Mike, Dana, Clive, Shannon, Genna, Verlie, Shauna, Bill, Eric, Paula, Mar, Peg, Sophie, Rinita, and Ven. I feel so blessed to have dear friends who read my work and leave a loving comment. Jackie once said " Mom you spend more time on Hubpages than Facebook " and I told him you all were my second family and we had a bond that was deep and meaningful and he understood. For awhile I was unable to write about him because I cried at the mere mention of his name, now I am able to think differently and so thankful that he is free of pain, so God bless you all and know that I appreciate you all sooo much.

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      Venkatachari M 

      7 months ago from Hyderabad, India

      Very sorry to hear of your loss. I can feel the depth of the grief through your written words. He is lucky to have so nice and a loving mother.

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      Rinita Sen 

      7 months ago

      Ruby, I am glad to see you again, and I am deeply sorry for your loss. This does feel like you wrote through your grief, every word has a heart, making it into for a beautiful poem.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Thank you Peg. I never thought he would go before me. He always mowed shirtless and the cancer started on his back, just a small red area that he didn't think much of until it became sore and swollen. When he went to his Dr. he removed the tumor and told Jackie that it was deep but he got it all, but it came back. He started on chemotherapy and we thought it was working, but soon he lost his hearing, then his voice. The cancer had metastasized to his lung, brain and liver. He was in terrible pain at the last. I miss him but so glad he's pain free. It helps me to talk about him. Happy you came to offer your kind words. Hugs

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      Sophie 

      7 months ago

      I am so sorry for you loss Ruby. Your pain is unimaginable. May his soul rest in peace and may God give you his strength and consolation in your time of grief.

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      Peg Cole 

      7 months ago from Northeast of Dallas, Texas

      Hello Ruby,

      Reading through your meaningful tribute to your son, my heart goes out to you. I can feel the bittersweet memories of his childhood and your role in his development. So sad to know that he has gone on to the next world. Our faith gives us hope that we will see our loved ones again in a land of milk and honey. What a reunion that will be.

      My deepest condolences on your loss. Hugs, Peg

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      Maria Jordan 

      7 months ago from Jeffersonville PA

      Dear Ruby,

      You are always in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you bunches of hugs.

      This is a beautiful tribute - I can feel your son's smiles from heaven.

      Love, mar

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      Paula 

      7 months ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      Ruby girl, I am hugging you as I bawl my eyes out. Please know that I both hurt with you for such a loss and celebrate treasured memories, as well. I understand. It truly was just "yesterday" when we raised our babies and had the privilege of seeing them grow into the wonderful individuals we could be so proud of.

      It's good to see you. My thoughts & wishes for peace are always yours. Take care, honey. Paula

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      Eric Dierker 

      7 months ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Ruby this is just great. Not the loss but the memories and of course how you wrote it. Your man is awaiting you forever.

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      Bill Holland 

      7 months ago from Olympia, WA

      Ruby, I send you hugs of comfort, my friend. All those wonderful memories will keep you company until the day you meet again.

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      Shauna L Bowling 

      7 months ago from Central Florida

      Ruby, this is heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time. My heart bleeds for you. Hang on to those precious memories and thank you for sharing them with us.

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      Verlie Burroughs 

      7 months ago from Canada

      Dear Ruby, These lines overflow with love, and express beautifully the joy, and the bond you shared his whole life long. Such sweet cherished moments made me smile. Thank you so much for sharing this in your time of grief.

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      Genna East 

      7 months ago from Massachusetts, USA

      Dearest Ruby...I'm so sorry for your loss. It is unimaginable, but perhaps the only thing worse than losing a child is never having and known the child, and sharing that loving closeness. Your son left many gifts behind to hold and to cherish. And how fortunate for Jackie to have such a wonderful mother. Your poem in tribute is beautiful.

      Wishing you peace and love, my friend. Hugs.

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      Shannon Henry 

      7 months ago from Texas

      It's really good to see you back here, Ruby. I'm so sorry for your loss. It's so hard to watch a loved one suffer from cancer. Your poem is beautifully written and clearly illustrates the love you two still must share. Hugs.

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      Clive Williams 

      7 months ago from Jamaica

      haaa...sigh...the lost of a love one is never an easy thing to bare. It burdens your heart so much and makes you feel like you don't even want to be here. I know the feeling ruby, I know the pain. I know the anger. It is all the same. But just as the moon rises above our heads and light our way in the nigh and the sun in the day, you will find the strength to go on until we all meet in that place one day. My deepest condolences.

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      Ruby Jean Richert 

      7 months ago from Southern Illinois

      Hello Mike, so good to see you on my page. I couldn't rest until I wrote something about my son. We were so close, and I mss him terribly, but I know life goes on. I was not surprised to see you as the first to comment. You are a dear long time friend. Hugs and thank you.....

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      Dana Tate 

      7 months ago from LOS ANGELES

      Ruby,

      Sorry about your loss. Loved your tribute. You now have a new, beautiful angel, watching over you until you two meet again.

      God bless.

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      mckbirdbks 

      7 months ago from Emerald Wells, Just off the crossroads,Texas

      Hello my friend Ruby - This is a beautiful tribute to your son. He is now in a place without worry and stress. He was a lucky son, with a mother who looked out for him. Hear his voice in the birds that give their songs freely.

      Good to see you back. A big welcome, to you.

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