Continuous And Growing

One day it is the most beautiful you ever could imagine

Another day you are picking a fight

That can't be right

The one who will protect you against everyone and everything else

Why would do such a thing?

Feelings are so deep and you have a history with each other

You are so much a like

You think the same thoughts

You can finish each others words

That takes time

Feeling each others pain

It is true

You are one of the same

You have bonded and grown to become someone different

Your life forever changed

As you experience passion and a connection

Some things that bother you are easily exposed

For there are few secrets one can hold

As one tries to calm the other down

No reasoning and it is not long

Before plain common sense is lost

Looking back it is easy to see

Emotions were off the charts

No need to point a finger

What is done is done

We have to put this past us

Move together in harmony

We are together because we are one great team

Not a solo act

We have found are deepest faults

We have also celebrated our greatest achievements

Going forward lets make a deal

We show our positive emotions freely and strongly

Our negative emotions we corner them to paper

Where we can let the rage and hostility run wild

When your hand gets tired of writing

You have had enough of this fighting and unhappiness

Now we can at anytime see from a better point of view

All the fire and clouds of anger will have settled

We can see where a problem might lie

Now together we can work on a plan

To work out our differences and frustration

We always new

The love and the acceptance of each other

For the people we really are

We never said we were perfect

What we are is human

We all will have our bad days and our off times

It is when you need the support from the one you married

Who above all else

Loves you for you

They some how know how to make you soar

Without lifting a finger

They know you are capable of amazing things

When the time is right

They will lift you up and will always point you in the right direction

Call it intuition

They know something other people miss

No school will ever teach

I call it long term love

Make no mistake about it

Once you see it

Once you experience it

You are just so proud to say

I have never been more proud

To have married you

I love you

Today and tomorrow

I see you far in the future

By my side

Where we are the happiest we have ever been

Comments

DREAM ON (author) on March 02, 2020:

Dora Weithers So many feelings arise and take time to be understood. It is working progress and in the end, we are always better to have discussed what bothers us instead of placing fault on who or who may not be responsible. We both can be partly to blame. There is no shame. Trying to find the best possible solution makes both people happier. Thank you for all your comments and advice. I always keep an open ear. Have a great day and may happiness continue to blossom.

DREAM ON (author) on March 02, 2020:

Brenda Arledge I take a look at all the things we have done so well together and then look ahead where we continue to have a bright and promising future. It is easy to get hung up on certain issues that cross our path. Working together to find the right solution takes time and patience. Thank you for reading and sharing. Your thoughts are greatly appreciated. I hope you have a beautiful morning.

DREAM ON (author) on March 02, 2020:

Demas W Jasper You hit the nail right on the head. Listening to each other and sharing ideas and feelings. It is easy to spend time complaining instead if you put the extra effort into talking things out things will improve in different directions. Now it is up to you to make the necessary changes and continue to keep those lines of communication open. Thank you so much for reading and sharing. I hope your day is wonderful.

Demas W Jasper from Today's America and The World Beyond on March 01, 2020:

Keeping it all focused, and communicating, communicating, communicating.

BRENDA ARLEDGE from Washington Court House on February 28, 2020:

Dream on,

It happens when people are this close. Sometimes we need to just take a step back and realize how much we would miss them if they were not there.

Nothing else really matters. You love one another and that is the most important relationship to have.

Nice write.

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on February 28, 2020:

This is a common struggle you describe. but your positive outlook and the desirable ending make it easier to manage. Thank you.

DREAM ON (author) on February 28, 2020:

Umesh Chandra Bhatt So many things can and do happen in every relationship. The important thing is to focus on the love that brought you together in the first place and do everything in your power to appreciate and respect each other to have and enjoy a long and happy life together. Thank you to have been the first to read and comment on my poem. Wishing you the best in life and in love. Have an incredible day.

Umesh Chandra Bhatt from Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India on February 28, 2020:

Good one, well presented.