Marriage From Within
Continuous And Growing
One day it is the most beautiful you ever could imagine
Another day you are picking a fight
That can't be right
The one who will protect you against everyone and everything else
Why would do such a thing?
Feelings are so deep and you have a history with each other
You are so much a like
You think the same thoughts
You can finish each others words
That takes time
Feeling each others pain
It is true
You are one of the same
You have bonded and grown to become someone different
Your life forever changed
As you experience passion and a connection
Some things that bother you are easily exposed
For there are few secrets one can hold
As one tries to calm the other down
No reasoning and it is not long
Before plain common sense is lost
Looking back it is easy to see
Emotions were off the charts
No need to point a finger
What is done is done
We have to put this past us
Move together in harmony
We are together because we are one great team
Not a solo act
We have found are deepest faults
We have also celebrated our greatest achievements
Going forward lets make a deal
We show our positive emotions freely and strongly
Our negative emotions we corner them to paper
Where we can let the rage and hostility run wild
When your hand gets tired of writing
You have had enough of this fighting and unhappiness
Now we can at anytime see from a better point of view
All the fire and clouds of anger will have settled
We can see where a problem might lie
Now together we can work on a plan
To work out our differences and frustration
We always new
The love and the acceptance of each other
For the people we really are
We never said we were perfect
What we are is human
We all will have our bad days and our off times
It is when you need the support from the one you married
Who above all else
Loves you for you
They some how know how to make you soar
Without lifting a finger
They know you are capable of amazing things
When the time is right
They will lift you up and will always point you in the right direction
Call it intuition
They know something other people miss
No school will ever teach
I call it long term love
Make no mistake about it
Once you see it
Once you experience it
You are just so proud to say
I have never been more proud
To have married you
I love you
Today and tomorrow
I see you far in the future
By my side
Where we are the happiest we have ever been
Comments
DREAM ON (author) on March 02, 2020:
Dora Weithers So many feelings arise and take time to be understood. It is working progress and in the end, we are always better to have discussed what bothers us instead of placing fault on who or who may not be responsible. We both can be partly to blame. There is no shame. Trying to find the best possible solution makes both people happier. Thank you for all your comments and advice. I always keep an open ear. Have a great day and may happiness continue to blossom.
DREAM ON (author) on March 02, 2020:
Brenda Arledge I take a look at all the things we have done so well together and then look ahead where we continue to have a bright and promising future. It is easy to get hung up on certain issues that cross our path. Working together to find the right solution takes time and patience. Thank you for reading and sharing. Your thoughts are greatly appreciated. I hope you have a beautiful morning.
DREAM ON (author) on March 02, 2020:
Demas W Jasper You hit the nail right on the head. Listening to each other and sharing ideas and feelings. It is easy to spend time complaining instead if you put the extra effort into talking things out things will improve in different directions. Now it is up to you to make the necessary changes and continue to keep those lines of communication open. Thank you so much for reading and sharing. I hope your day is wonderful.
Demas W Jasper from Today's America and The World Beyond on March 01, 2020:
Keeping it all focused, and communicating, communicating, communicating.
BRENDA ARLEDGE from Washington Court House on February 28, 2020:
Dream on,
It happens when people are this close. Sometimes we need to just take a step back and realize how much we would miss them if they were not there.
Nothing else really matters. You love one another and that is the most important relationship to have.
Nice write.
Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on February 28, 2020:
This is a common struggle you describe. but your positive outlook and the desirable ending make it easier to manage. Thank you.
DREAM ON (author) on February 28, 2020:
Umesh Chandra Bhatt So many things can and do happen in every relationship. The important thing is to focus on the love that brought you together in the first place and do everything in your power to appreciate and respect each other to have and enjoy a long and happy life together. Thank you to have been the first to read and comment on my poem. Wishing you the best in life and in love. Have an incredible day.
Umesh Chandra Bhatt from Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India on February 28, 2020:
Good one, well presented.
