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Since we love utilizing our energy on things
That haven't happened yet
We love risking our time molding a scenery of thousands of what if's to eat our brain
Have you noticed how seemingly immune your brain system with this?
The following are the most common
You left with a bad conversation with your parents-
while you're sipping coffee a thought came out out of the wall clock,
What if their going to hate me for the rest of my life?
What if mum plunged into heart attack of being so mad ?
What if my entire family would hate me!?
You leave a serious comment on social media post
Later on your what if's
starts eating your brain-
What if they'll misunderstood my comment ?
What if they're going to criticize me?
They're probably going to hate me!!!
You had a fight with your spouse last night
There you are
staring at the ceiling banging your head on the walls
What if he'd ask for divorce?
What if he'd left me?
What if he'd hate me,? what if he already decided of leaving before I even try to fix the misunderstanding?
" We are more often frightened
Than hurt; And we suffer more from
Imagination than from reality. "
So here's the point -
" What if you stop solving-
Knowing the REAL problem? "
What if's are part of our life,
but assuming and believing those thoughts
are more likely to happen and that you're foretold
as if your a psychic -
PSYCHIC may be true in some sort
But here's the thing and the truth.
" What might happen tomorrow,
It depends on what decisions you make today."
the problem in here is
We're talking about your life, your spouse,
your friends, your family
The situation is no joke
And you're not a PSYCHIC
Stop relying and spending your energy
predicting on things
that haven't happened yet
Instead, and the best thing you should
be doing is to face the problem
sit down and speak out your reasoning
behind those words and actions
Connect and listen carefully
to the other person
do not focused your attention
on your truth right and wrong
If you keep practicing this habits-
You'll probably locked up in this thought-
you will never be able to make
a reality move everytime you just watched
your what If's play and eating your brain-
Instead of putting it to reality questions
and reality actions
If you always keep your what if's play on repeat
You will always be tapped out
and will end up eating your brain.