Toxic Boyfriend

Poems and Rhymes to help raise awareness of dangerous personality disorders (Narcissists & Sociopaths), and to encourage healing.

Toxic Boyfriend

Toxic Boyfriend

Manipulating others is not only something Narcissists do, but it is who they are at their core. No wonder they are such masters at fooling and deceiving others!

Pains

The Target

Upon sharing with him

Her deep-seeded feelings

of sadness, confusion

and pain,

she became the target

of his ghosting,

and the object of his heartless

and bitter disdain.

Artificial Love

His love for her was merely

for show, and his “academy

award-winning” performance,

superficial;

upon their breakup,

she saw with distinct clarity,

that his entire being was frightfully,

and eerily, artificial.

Smear Campaign

His toxic friends hungered

for more of his Smear Campaign

in eager and drooling

suspense;

his words of “true love

and devotion” were merely fake,

and all cleverly,

masterminded nonsense.

Flying Monkeys

His Flying Monkeys

became his own personal

detectives, and diligently noted

all of her whereabouts;

in their minion fashion,

they frisked her for his approval,

and his crumbly,

buttery handouts.

Pattern

Strangely, others have the same account

when conveying their Narcissist’s

toxic pattern of cunning, insidious

gaming sequentially;

especially, the Gaslighting,

Triangulating, and Smear Campaigns,

which occur in the relationship

with astonishing frequency.

Narcissists Don’t Change

Toxic Boyfriend

Narcissists serve their targets such subtle blows of ongoing devious abuse, that upon their victim's attempts at trying to explain the Dark Personality’s abuse to others, it is the victim who ends up sounding like the lunatic. The Narcissist already knows this, and has set up this devious plan from the beginning.

Pick Your Battles?

Toxic Boyfriend

The unequaled skills Narcissists use to execute their insidious manipulations are not because of some supernatural intelligence on their part; it is due to the practicing and sharpening of their dark-art skills since they were barely old enough to reason (even with primitive understanding), that certain choices and actions enable them to use people (seen as objects), for their own personal satisfaction, and insatiable need of power and control.

Malignant Narcissists

Toxic Boyfriend

Due to their emotionally stunted and toxic mentality, all Narcissists (no matter their biological age), will always be way too young for healthy relationships of any kind.

Narcissists Don’t Change

Female Narcissists

Women can also be Narcissists. They employ the same trauma- if not worse- onto their victims as do male predators!

Narcissists Deceive

Toxic, Narcissists

“I am sending you out just like sheep to a pack of wolves. You must be as cautious as snakes and as gentle as doves.“

— Mathew 10:16

Award Winning Performers, Narcissists

© 2019 Tamara Yancosky

Comments

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on May 19, 2019:

Big hugs, Lawrence!

Lawrence Hebb from Hamilton, New Zealand on May 17, 2019:

Tamara

Thank you

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on May 16, 2019:

Lawrence,

This is the wisest comment I have received... Indeed, don’t play their game; instead, NOTHING them. No reaction. No emotion. They will become bored.

Thank you!

Lawrence Hebb from Hamilton, New Zealand on May 13, 2019:

They are everywhere, but they only win if you 'play their game'

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on April 07, 2019:

Dream On, your comment is so kind to me. Thank you! I like what you said about going for the “jugular”; it made me smile. Hugs! ♥️

DREAM ON on April 04, 2019:

Your writing goes straight for the jugular. These narcissists are mean and stop at anything to get what they want. I have not dealt with these people but I know of them. Thank you for the warnings and sharing the most painful of all experiences. I admire your courage and bravery. Have a lovely weekend.

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on March 31, 2019:

Bill,

Thank you so much for your kind comment, and I am so glad for your delightful visit!

Hugs!

William Kovacic from Pleasant Gap, PA on March 31, 2019:

Well, Tamara. You did an excellent job of portraying these sick people. Thank you for exposing them. We know they're out there!

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on March 26, 2019:

Thank you, Flourish, kindly! Yes, I have risen above these people through the strength that The Lord gives to me.

I actually have not been writing new poems about These Kind; I just have a back-up of them that I’d written in the past that I put out every once in awhile because Pinterest really likes them. So, I attach my links to Pinterest.

But, I have not had any issues with these types of personalities for a long time.

Hugs!

FlourishAnyway from USA on March 26, 2019:

Nicely written. I hope you find your power and rise over these kind of people.

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on March 25, 2019:

This is true, Bill. This is why I also write about Heroes, and The Lord.

On my Wordpress Site, most people are interested in my poems and writings about Narcissists because they are looking for validation. I receive many emails from people who wish for me to continue to offer them my experiences through my writings. So, I am not wasting my time on Narcissists, as I am taking some of my time to help others. Apart from that, I have a full life and am immensely blessed in it!

I do have poems, below, about Love, family, Peace, Pets, and many more! No one is ever made to read my writings, but they choose to do so.

Thank you for your visit.

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on March 25, 2019:

Dora,

Thank you for your comment. They cannot generally be helped because they believe they are perfect as they are, and it is everyone else who is in the wrong.

I do pray for them, though, from a distance, as they are dangerous individuals who prey on the most vulnerable if given any opportunity.

The best way to help them is to go No Contact with Narcissists and Sociopaths and pray for them afar, but despite our prayers, do not trust them.

In Mathew, it says that Jesus is “sending us among wolves, and to be as shrewd as snakes, but as pure as doves”.

Tamara Yancosky (author) from Uninhabited Regions on March 25, 2019:

Elijah,

Thank you for your kind comment. It is always a pleasure and an honor to hear from you.

Hugs!

Dora Weithers from The Caribbean on March 25, 2019:

Thanks for the low-down on these manipulators and their "masterminded nonsense." That said, they are people too. Is there a way to help them which is safe for the helper?

Bill Holland from Olympia, WA on March 25, 2019:

Life is too short to waste it on narcissists. I much prefer the give and take of a healthy relationship.

Elijah A Alexander Jr from Washington DC on March 24, 2019:

A magnificently worded and written account of how I believe a "Narcissist" would be like in a relationship. Thank you for your presentation.