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The Purpose of a Woman: Being the Woman That God Created Me to Be

Writing is my passion. I have an undying thirst and quest in the field of writing. Some eat, drink, or use drugs when stressed; I write.


When God created woman, he had a grand plan for womanhood. It is essential for women to discover and lives out that plan He design for their life. God has a purpose for a woman and desires; she fills this obstinacy, so she is free to become the woman he created her to be.

To be emancipated, she needs to know the role she plays today. God gave a woman one of the highest privileges in the world, that of giving birth, caring, and nurturing a living soul. There are several things a female may wander in search of her purpose, such as were women and men created as an equal?

Did God create women to be leaders? Whether you are a woman who is married or singles, it is vital to know your purpose and becomes the woman God created you to be.

God created the woman last, and there was a reason. He made woman for man. Although I don’t have the answer to why God built her last, I do believe He saved the best for last. But then again, I like to think God made a woman so that man will have the best of his creation. A woman’s purpose is to be a helpmate to a man.

The man needs a woman to become his best. The woman came into existence to be a man companion. God created a woman because He felt it is not suitable for the man to be lonely.


Genesis 2:18 KJV: “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.” God created woman and the role and responsibility that He placed upon her. A woman plays a very vital role for the man today.

God created man in His image, but a woman came into life with a purpose in mind, to be a man’s companion. God made a woman with values and a purpose. What God desires is for women to know that she is valuable to not only men but the world.

Because a female carries so much weight on her shoulders and has so many responsibilities like taking good care of a husband and children, an ideal career, being supportive of friends, and the surrounding people, she must know her role.

Her husband, children, and everybody that depends on her has full faith in her and lacks nothing of value. Most Americans say women are as capable of being good leaders as men. Women are competent, intelligent, and reliable females who inspire those who rely on them the most.

A smart woman will understand and recognize in the sight of God; He put together a male and a female to come together in unity in marriage and create a family.

Below is my story about how I learn my purpose as a woman and how I needed to be free to be me. The woman God created me to be.


Reminiscing back to from the time I began verbalizing my words and engaging in reading and writing about everything. I was always fascinated with writing my thoughts and thinking the pen and paper are the sole two who need to know my darkest moments or secrets.

I didn’t trust or talk to another person the way I put my thought on paper. But as I grew older and began third grade, I began to trust this one girl I thought was my best friend; I talk to her and sharing my thought on paper with her.

It took many years before I learn that trust a person with my thoughts was one enormous mistake. And never in my life was I so happy to perceive. I didn’t have to feel awkward for trusting my pen and paper to hold my secrets. The truthfulness of my pen secure space in my journal and I can share what I want the world to read.

Furthermore, when I was a baby girl, I knew I differed from other children. For this reason, I wanted to understand who I am, and I wish to be free to be me and to feel secure to be free to be me. I wanted to know my values. I seek to make it easier to enjoy life, so; I figure out all my interests, and from that, I thought I had every aspect of my life figured out.

I can remember growing up as a child, raised to believe that I did not have to fear anything I could not change. It was as if God Himself told me not to worry about nothing, my little ones…..I am with you; you will learn to understand who you are and know you have more strength than you realize.

At nineteen, when it was time to face the reality of adulthood, I wondered, who am I? Leaving home and growing up in a vast world, I learn it is entirely different from a child’s imagination.

To have a life worth living, I had to negotiate my way to adulthood, and it has been more challenging than I could have ever imagined. I learned wars were already wages for my future, and I had to fit the various puzzle pieces together to shape my life.

Despite that, I often heard God would shake my enemy loose from my life and cut them off long before they can hurt me. I felt the quaking under my feet. But God gave me favors, I am highly favored in Him, and none of my enemies can hurt me.

Trying to create an alternative life made me realize things do not always come easy. There were days where I believed I could do something, and occasionally, I felt I could do nothing right in life.

I found myself dissatisfied with my weaknesses and struggle, and that is that I realized life is not a fairy-tale as I imagine growing up as a child. Right amid the taunting of my enemies, God stepped in and proved he would never leave me nor forsake me as He gave me wisdom, so I will figure out how to defeat my enemies.


After just a year of moving out on my own, I got a few dents in my fender. Those cuts gave me much pain, but that is how I figured out how to get through the worst times of my life. The first year was a year of enormous changes, so I spend a lot of time praying and trying to fit the pieces of my life together, but perfection is my enemy.

God was there for me. He could have turned away from me, but the Living God encourages and equipped me even fiercer, and I learn how to be free to be me. How to become the youthful woman, He originated me to be.

After the second year of living on my own, I felt I was making progress and upward, becoming the resulting progressive version of myself, until I found a moment that aimed at me, which was not my will or my strength.

The problems come when you temporarily lose track of where your strength and help come from and become more aware, more present.

However, God’s love for Me has taken aback any loss, and He loves ME even more. Then I learn my blessings were merely not getting the colossal head but were just a blessing when I genuinely believe in myself, be true to myself, and that how I become my constant, beautiful self.

It was then that I realized that on my own, I am all fingers and thumbs, but through the love of God, I can survive, even with an enormous amount of weight on my shoulders, and I can grow.

For it is God who has a purpose for my life, and His wish for me is that I am free. Therefore, I wanted to be free to be me, more real, more loving, and more faithful to God, more of what He wants from me, and most of all, sustain me to enjoy becoming my true, beautiful self.


Being a chosen vessel means you serve a purpose and striving to gain that obstinacy to encounter steep trails and challenges. I had to learn the problems came when I do and think my way, instead of doing things the right way.

I had to learn to stop feeling like I am not living up to my potential in life and strive to do so; that way, I can live up to my highest purpose. When I understood I was not doing what God meant for me to be performing.

Being a chosen vessel of God, growing up in a Christian environment is entirely different from how other children grow and live. When God chooses you, there isn’t anything you can do but submit to him.

You are different, and to know who you expected being, you learn by reading the Bible and receiving God’s love, accepting his grace he shares with you on your life’s journey.

To live the life of a chosen vessel of God, many keep a watchful eye on you. They judge and create many problems and struggles as they try to destroy who you are meant to be.

Also, they read any fictitious story written, and it is easy for them to believe anything said about you.
All chosen vessels experience enormous pressure as they strive to be more than ordinary. However, if they allow God to lead and let Him place them in their rightful place in life, things are a lot more accessible.

Also, they will learn to love, respect, feel, and manage all the emotions that come with being a chosen vessel. Maintaining the feeling means you can let go of the expectation that people hold over you that no longer serve you.

Although being a chosen vessel comes with many trials, being a female vessel selected comes with even more significant challenges. It was after I turned thirty years of age that I took my role as a chosen vessel seriously.

I began reading and studying the word of God daily. I studied how to conceal the promise of God in my heart and learn what it truly means to be a chosen vessel.


Bible’s Scriptures I memorized to be a chosen woman of God

• I Peter 2:9 (ESV)But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for his own possession, that you may proclaim the excellencies of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light.

1. John 15: 16(ESV) You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you.

2. Deuteronomy 14: 2(ESV) For you are a people holy to the Lord your God, and the Lord has chosen you to be a people for his treasured possession, out of all the peoples who are on the face of the earth.

3. I Timothy 2: 9-10 (ESV) likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works

4. Colossians 3: 18-24 (ESV)Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged. Bondservants, obey in everything those who are your earthly masters, not by way of eyeservice, as people-pleasers, but with sincerity of heart, fearing the Lord. Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ.

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•Matthew 22: 14(ESV) For many are called, but few are chosen.

• Ephesians 1: 3-4(ESV) Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be Holy and blameless before him.

• Deuteronomy 14:2(ESV) For you are a people holy to the Lord your God, and the Lord had chosen you to be a people for his treasured possession, out of all the people who are on the face of the earth.

• 2 Thessalonians 2:14(ESV) To this he is called you through our gospel, so that you may obtain the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The scriptures above are verses that help me to understand how to embrace the calling God has for my life. They also made me understand the instruction on how to be a chosen woman of God. Being an elected woman of God means. I have to strive against sin, and I am to be pure and having self-control in my everyday living.

The most challenging part of learning to be a chosen woman of God was to understand not to doubt the commitment of myself. What I mean is, I had to learn how to perpetuate myself to God and my husband. My husband is the head of the house, and God is the source of my life. In the beginning, it was hard to separate the two.

I faced many struggles, but memorizing the above scriptures and committing myself entirely to God assist me. God gave me the wisdom of how to submit myself to my husband and be the mother to my children. Placing the blessings in my home, my possessions, and my faith in God gave me the strength to accept my calling as a chosen vessel to be free to be me and becoming the young woman he wanted me to be.

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