I always wonder when someone tells me that they have just met or seen a person and they are feeling Love at First Sight type of thing for him/her. I don't know what they are talking about because I really can't perceive what this is.
See, According to me love is something that never happens in a single moment, It just can't. Its not Love's way. It is a very demanding 'Emotion' or whatever you wanna call it. It is drenching and it is demanding. Its not a hobby which you can carry on with your daily routine or some game you play when having free time.
Love grows with time. It matures like cheddar cheese, the older the better. And it costs you ;your comfort, your mental wellness, your passion and your pleasure. It never allows you to be satisfied. It will always want more. You think you saw them and love happened. No it didn't.
Now a days, love is just like a fancy hobby or a viral game, everyone wants to do it. Everyone has their own corrupted version of love and this first sight thing is exactly what I am talking about. Love never comes handy and its not quick too.It will make you obsessed with it for your whole life ahead. Love is what, that can never be done or undone in just a blink.It intrigues you and no calms will you enjoy after it. It burns you and no balms will make that pain go away. It cuts you and makes you call its name.
To your dismay, you are not feeling any of this and claiming being in love, you aren't.
Correct your definitions of love.
© 2021 Osman Ghazi
Osman Ghazi (author) on January 01, 2021:
Thanks for your reviews.
John Hansen from Queensland Australia on January 01, 2021:
Good onservations of love, Osman. I don’t believe in love at first sight either, it is something that is much deeper and takes time.