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Every relationship started with great expectations and ended in great depression . Have you had problems in your relationships?

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Yes We Can Fix it.

My friend was 24 years old living in India. He had a nice job nice car and nice house, still no life partner.Every relationship started with great expectations and ended in great depression .Have you had problems in your relationships how did you fix it ?

When he was 24 he was still waiting for Cupid to shoot the arrow and find me the perfect partner .it seems his Cupid doesn’t live in India. so he went to the one woman that he trust ,his mother, there she was sitting on the floor doing yoga.Mama I want a wife ,she said no problem We can fix it.

Ladies and gentlemen did you notice what his mama said she said We can fix it that’s right.His mother was offering to find a bride for him, she immediately picked up the phone started calling all her friends looking for potential brides.
Soon arrangements were made for my friend meeting with the first prospect there she was Wow she looked like a movie star from Bollywood. She looked at him like he was George Clooney. He imagined spending the rest of his life holding her hand listening to music and doing hot yoga.cupid has shot the heart and they fell in love.

Four weeks later on 4th July they got married on America’s Independence day, He lost his independence. after marriage he realized she was not really smart she was also very hot-tempered just like him. They had problems ,she liked outdoors he liked indoors she loved swimming he feared drowning, she liked cooking he like to tell her how he miss his mama’s cooking.They had problems of the problems.He used Logic he used emotion he even showed her a role model why can’t she just be perfect like him .
Within six months they grew apart there was no holding of hands ,no music and no yoga. Looking for solutions he read the top 20 books on relationships, guess what they don’t work then he asked his one friend Jay he just had his divorce. Jay said man life is short don’t suffer separate.No Jay he said I just want to fix it exactly my lawyer will fix it. He called his mama guess what she said we can fix it.

Next day she spoke to both of them. here is what she said you will never find a partner who’s 100% perfect it doesn’t matter whether you pick your partner or someone else fix for you .most people think that they fall in love because of Cupid’s arrow but in reality what keeps you in love is Cupid’s bow and spring. you see the bow and the spring have a great partnership ,the more the string pulls back the more the bow bends.

Ego is what pulls the string still the mighty bow bends because it cares for the partner if she pulled you bent if you pull she bends if both of you decide to pull less and then more the partnership survives that’s the only way you can fix any relationship.My friend said When I look back to my strained relationships and lost friendships I understood Mama’s wisdom.

The core problem was why unwillingness to bend more to adjust to attempt to accept to pull less.Since that day I changed my ways when she wanted to go out I joined her when she wanted to swim I joined her (at the shallow end) when I became nice she became nicer soon she started cooking better than mama.

Last month my friend and his wife Celebrated their anniversary for the 17th time with their two children yes that’s the same wife. My dear friends what do You think they are now perfect partners No, do they still fight yes, the difference is that now even when they fight they are still holding hands. My dear friends if you have any problem in any relationship try to pull less and Bend more if you do

I’m sure we can fix it.

This content is accurate and true to the best of the author’s knowledge and is not meant to substitute for formal and individualized advice from a qualified professional.

© 2022 Ammar Sadiq

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