My Personal Best: Reflections About the Game of Life

Updated on February 1, 2018

Random Thoughts About Life

I don’t know when that term, “personal best,” arrived on the sporting scene. To my recollection, it was first heard in track and field, but I may be wrong about that, and a brief search online gave me next to nothing with regards to its history.

I find it to be an interesting term.

I’m being only slightly sarcastic when I say it sounds like one of those gold stars elementary teachers give to all the kids so they can feel like they are noticed and appreciated.

Classmates didn't think I had much potential in high school
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The Reality

I understand it in track and field events. There is only one “best,” right? There is only one best at a particular competition, only one “best” in a state, only one “best” in a country and, ultimately, only one “best” in the world, which basically leaves out the other 99.999999 percent who participate in those events. So in order to feel a sense of accomplishment, on an individual basis, athletes chase after personal bests . . . a personal best running the mile . . . a personal best throwing the discus . . . a personal best lifting weights . . . it gives goal-oriented people something to shoot for.

Up to a point!

At some point, in athletics, it is no longer possible to reach a personal best. Our bodies are only capable of doing so much. We will eventually reach the point of diminishing returns based on a number of physical and mental factors. I have no idea what my personal best is in running a mile. Let’s just say, for the sake of discussion, that it was once six minutes. There is no way on earth that I will ever again run a six-minute mile . . . no way . . . no amount of optimism and positive thinking can push this sixty-nine year old body around a track, for a mile, in six minutes.

So once it becomes painfully obvious that a personal best is no longer attainable, what do athletes do?

And, for the sake of this article, what do the rest of us do?

I’m a Writer

I keep thinking of Harper Lee, the author of the classic “To Kill A Mockingbird.” Until recently it was believed she only wrote that one book . . . considered one of the finest in literature . . . her personal best for sure . . . and then she quit writing.

Do you suppose she knew at the time there was no way she was ever going to write that well again? She had attained her personal best so why go on? That’s a hell of a decision, don’t you think? I doubt I could do that, just quit writing, resting on my considerable laurels (if I had any).

Steinbeck, Hemingway, Shakespeare . . . when did they write their personal bests, and were they aware of it when they did?

I think about these things when I write. What if I’ve already achieved my personal best? What if, after I published “Resurrecting Tobias,” my best was behind me, and the rest of my writing career will be spent chasing the unattainable? My muse will whisper to me occasionally, telling me I’m wasting my time, suggesting to me I would be using my time more wisely if I just stuck with urban farming. What does one do with that realization? What if everything published in the future will be judged as “second best?”

And artists out there, and sculptors, and musicians . . . do you suppose Leonard Cohen realized he had reached his all-time personal best when he wrote “Hallelujah?” If so, what kind of disappointment did he feel for the rest of his life? What kind of frustration, still writing songs but knowing his personal best was twenty years in the rearview mirror?

Did Judy Garland know her personal best happened in the Wizard of Oz? I wonder how she felt about that?

Hell, extend that line of thinking to include practically everyone. Parents, did you experience your personal best in raising Child #1, and Child #2 and Child #3 just experienced your “less than best?” Pastor, was your personal best sermon five years ago, Christmas of 2013?

My personal best bowling game was a 279 back in 1966, but at the time I didn’t know it. My personal best report card was in 1970, but I had no clue at that time.

So how does one know, and what do you do with that knowledge once you have it?

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What Now?

So that’s the question, isn’t it?

What do you do, knowing your best is behind you, or even just suspecting that perhaps your best efforts and days and creations are behind you?

Elizabeth Gilbert, best-selling author of “Eat, Pray, Love” asks this same question in a TedTalks episode. The success of her book in 2006 caught her completely by surprise, and once she thought about it, this same question haunted her. What happens now? What does a writer do when THE BEST has happened? How do you follow that up? Your muse won’t shut up. The desire to write lives on . . . but the best is in the rearview mirror.

It seems to me, and this is just me, that if you are human, if you are a card-carrying member of the species called homo sapiens, you just keep trying because that’s what we do.

Quitting is not an option!

I write because I love to write. I farm because I love to farm. I continue to be a parent, a husband, and a friend because I love being those things. I continue to build things, and try new things, and experience all there is for me to experience, because that’s what we humans do. This is how I’m hard-wired.

And I continue to attempt to do my best, even though I know, most likely, my best is behind me, because that is how I was raised.

And I suspect the same can be said for most of you who are reading this.

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High School Most Likely to . . .

Remember in the high school yearbooks, there is always a section of “students most likely?” One student is named “Most Likely To Become Famous,” and one “Most Likely To Be A Sports Star,” and so on and so on. In my high school yearbook I’m not mentioned at all. Evidently I was “Most Likely To Accomplish Absolutely Nothing” because none of my classmates considered me noteworthy. Such is the fate of an introvert.

I laugh at the silliness of it all.

I may not be rich. I may not be famous. I never made it to the Major Leagues in baseball. My businesses were never listed on the Fortune 500. I will never grace the cover of Time Magazine.

But I’ve done all right for myself, and I continue to try because damn, folks, I love this life of mine! I love what I do. I create stories with words. I touch peoples’ hearts with letters of the alphabet. I make friendships with people I’ll never meet. Every single day, for me, is a personal best.

And I’ll tell you one more thing and then let you go: my personal bests may be behind me, but there’s more to come!

You ain’t seen nothing yet!

2018 William D. Holland (aka billybuc)

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      Bill Holland 6 days ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you very much, Nikki! Your kind words are appreciated.

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      Nikki Khan 7 days ago from London

      Wow,,,just awesome Bill,,your personal best is this hub too.It just gives every reader a new determination to get his or her personal best if not yet.And it gives a hope for best future to get the personal best out of it.

      Bravo to you my friend.God bless you.

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      Bill Holland 12 days ago from Olympia, WA

      Kathy, I appreciate you very much. Thank you!

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      Kathy Burton 12 days ago from Florida

      Love the line-I touch peoples’ heart with letters of the alphabet. Maybe you seen your best in something’s but they say writing you only get better with trying. I suspect more personal best in writing for you. At any rate, keep writing forward says this loyal reader.

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      Bill Holland 13 days ago from Olympia, WA

      And to you, Audrey! Thank you!

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      Audrey Howitt 2 weeks ago from California

      Writers only gt better as time unfolds--here's to you Bill!

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you Larry! I'm hoping my apex is many years in the future.

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      Larry Rankin 2 weeks ago from Oklahoma

      The ability to achieve your personal best is dictated by age in many things, but not all.

      For example one's physical skill in an athletic event reaches an apex very early, but also in some mental ventures, as well.

      Chess is a good example of this. Most the best chess players actually reach their potential relatively young, because chess requires being able to hold a ton of scenarios in your head at once and find the best one relatively quickly.

      But with writing, as long as you have your faculties, age doesn't matter. Yes, you might produce more at an apex age, but you never know when you'll produce your best work.

      Great read:-)

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I'm happy to hear that, Leonie!

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      LOL...I wouldn't go that far, Frank!

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      Leonie Manguilin 2 weeks ago from Belgium.

      Thank you so much, you really had enlightened my mind.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I am very happy to hear that, Leonie! Best wishes to you on that project.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you so much, Dora! I appreciate your very kind words.

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      Frank Atanacio 2 weeks ago from Shelton

      The strongest survives... LOL your reflection is tops.. so does that mean you are ahead of the 9999999% you have a dutiful attitude and you share it selflessly.. bravo

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      Leonie Manguilin 2 weeks ago from Belgium.

      Quitting is not an option! I am speechless because of I'm about to quit writing my project but then I come reading your article. My point of view has just changed. Thank you so much for sharing these encouraging thoughts with you.

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      Dora Weithers 2 weeks ago from The Caribbean

      Love your attitude, Bill. You have attained more "bests" than you know: best in different areas. More personal bests, going forward!

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Yes you are, Mary! Thank you for the very kind words.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you Bill! I have to squeeze a lot of living into the time I have left.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I guess we're going to find out, Zulma, because I'm going to keep writing until I can't sit at this desk any longer. :) Thanks for your thoughts, my friend.

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      Mary Norton 2 weeks ago from Ontario, Canada

      If you measure success by how many people you have helped, you'll be there at the top. I think each day is a challenge to be our best. I don't think I have it yet but I'm getting there.

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      William Kovacic 2 weeks ago from Pleasant Gap, PA

      "Quitting is not an option!" Love it, Bill. It's so nice to see such a positive approach to life. I happen to love my life, too. Thanks for sharing this one, my friend.

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      Zulma Burgos-Dudgeon 2 weeks ago from United Kingdom

      I suppose when it comes to sporting endeavours, the human body can be pushed only so far. But creative endeavours, I'm not sure. How would you know if your last creation was your best if you don't keep on doing your best? The next work may not be better than the last, but next one might be. Or maybe the one after that. Or the one after that.

      Maybe 'personal best' shouldn't apply to creative or intellectual pursuits. The mind is an amazing thing and I think it can stand to be pushed beyond its supposed limitations.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      It is for sure, DDE! thank you for your thoughts.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Well I sure hope there is, Linda! I would hate to think it is coming to an end. Have a wonderful weekend!

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Blessings, Michael my friend, and you are absolutely correct....when done with love, it will always be a personal best.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Manatita, thank you! I'm a spiritual being having a human experience, and as such I will always stumble. I just try to keep the stumbling to a minimum these days. Blessings to you always!

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you Rochelle! I'm very happy you found this to be encouraging.

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      DDE 2 weeks ago

      Great writing from you. Anything one starts has to be completed at some point. It is a good accomplishment to practice what we preach.

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      Linda Crampton 2 weeks ago from British Columbia, Canada

      This is an inspirational article, Bill. I love the idea that there's more to come!

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      Michael Milec 2 weeks ago

      I have been following you my dear friend for a while by now , and whatever / wherever your hands touch I can see the traces of your work of love. To me all of it is increasingly your best .

      Be blessed and a blessing as you are.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Ya gotta let me win at something, Sis, or I'll take my ball and go home. :)

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      Paula 2 weeks ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      HA! and all this time, I thought you were just "letting: me win at arm wrestling. How come you always beat me in Scrabble, ya big bully!

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      manatita44 2 weeks ago from london

      'there's more to come' is a better way of seeing it. As an athlete you may be right. As a patient, some talk about achieving a potential which is attainable for the individual in so far as each one is different and factors such as ill health, age, gender and so forth, come into play.

      We speak of 'progress' in the spiritual life. The only aim is progress. Life is a self-transcending journey and there is no such thing as perfection. One can always do more. Today's goal, is rather like tomorrow's starting point and indeed if we see the same old thing and no newness, then we will make no progress.

      I may not run a six minute mile now, but the progress is in the effort, the realisation of something new ... more Light... wisdom. Hope this all makes sense.

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      rdsparrowriter 2 weeks ago

      Personal best can be different to many people in different ways. Just doing what you love and being true to oneself is your effort of doing or being your personal best :) very encouraging message :) keep being a blessing :)

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      It was strange, Janine, not having your name pop up first when I posted this. :) Thanks for being here. Stay safe and warm with the winter weather approaching.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I'm sorry, Sis, I hung this on you this morning. As your brother I know better than to do this before you've had your fifth cup of coffee. :)

      Of course I agree with you. I always agree with you, not only because you are my sibling, but also because you've always been able to beat me up.

      Daddy didn't raise a fool in this boy.

      Hugs

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      Janine Huldie 2 weeks ago from New York, New York

      Bill, I am not sure how I missed this yesterday. But still I am so glad I found it today as this was inspiring and uplifting to read as another week comes to a close. I am with you and not giving up anytime soon. Happy Friday and weekend ahead now, my friend :)

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I believe it is, Pop, and I look forward to yours.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Well, Randi, I hope you make it back here, but if you don't, I at least have your friendship, and that's quite a lot.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you very much, Harish! I love your reflection as well.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you for those kind words, Mary! I love this line: "with anonymity comes freedom to fail and try again. Brilliant!

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      That is me, MizB! My goodness, that was just last week, wasn't it? LOL I understand Mitchell's thinking, but I could never just stop writing.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I hope that is true, Jackie! Thank you dear friend.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I really appreciate that, Chris! Thank you very much.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Nicely done, Clive! Your award certificate is in the mail.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Great point, Lori! A good reminder for all of us, each day, in every endeavor.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Great point, Bronwen! Thank you for that reflection.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you Shannon! What choice do you have? None! Living is dreaming, my friend, so keep dreaming!

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      breakfastpop 2 weeks ago

      I believe that happiness comes with doing what you love, If the best is yet to come, then my personal best is yet to come too.

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      Paula 2 weeks ago from Beautiful Upstate New York

      UGH! Thanks a heap, Bro! Barely 7:30 am & you've got my head reeling with thought and brimming with questions. Nothing like keeping the troops on our toes.

      OK, I'll go along with this morning exercise. I'd love to attempt to give my "personal best" comment, right here & now. Newsflash: That's not gonna happen.

      How do we know when we've accomplished our personal best, bro? Each of us have various personas. Does each unique person we are & ever will be, get to have a personal best in any number of categories? If so.....WOW! We can all walk around proud as peacocks with our long list of personal BEST achievements. Aren't we fabulous??

      Actually, who's to say which moment in time we've done our best....and in what ways? Is it up to us alone, to decide or can we consider a multitude of opinions?

      How many times after writing an awesome body of work, has at least one person commented, "You've outdone yourself, friend!" Well, shoot! Have I just created a NEW personal best?

      Have I caused enough of a ruckus now, bro? I'm just not happy unless I'm analyzing, creating discussion & encouraging investigations.

      Every minute we exist, love, laugh, cry, create, share & learn, is another opportunity to do it all better, more interesting & productive. IMHO, you have a long, clear path ahead to produce the best of the best. No limits, no deadlines. After all, bro....surely you've heard it a thousand times: "It ain't over til it's over." The direction is forward & up, buddy....Keep movin! I'll do my utmost to keep up with you. Love & hugs, Sis

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      Randi Benlulu 2 weeks ago from Mesa, AZ

      Love this! What a great article to read when I have missed so many. Yesterday I was doing a puzzle. It has many different levels. Each one is my first time playing and at the end of each one, it throws a trophy next to my score that says Personal Best! I feel like I may never replay any of those because each one says I'm the best!By the way, I never got voted the mostly to anything in high school either.

      Thank you for your, as always, inspiring words. I keep trying to get myself back here....

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      Harish Mamgain 2 weeks ago from India, New Delhi

      Bill, I love reading this article. Continuity of any activity is a must. It's a fact that everything fine is created after a great churning, be it a piece of architecture , writing, music, acting or dance. And, when such an accomplished thing /feat gets noticed, it has a wonderful effect on the mind of the audience , beholder and reader. I commend you beautiful and apt thoughts, my friend.

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      Mary Wickison 2 weeks ago from Brazil

      I like to think my best is yet to come.

      When you think of people such as Michael Jackson and his Thriller album, the pressure to better that must be terrifying. The star-studded streets are filled with people who crashed and burned after shining brightly for a short time.

      With anonymity comes freedom to fail and try again.

      Through my articles, I know I have had an impact on people's lives in other countries. I've even had photos reprinted in an Asian textbook.

      I agree with Chris, you are like Johnny Appleseed. I know, without your encouragement, I wouldn't have continued writing. Your support has had a ripple effect across Hubpages which has spread around the world.

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      MizBejabbers 2 weeks ago

      Bill, I guess every senior citizen looks back and reflects on what may be their personal best. It's a shame that our bodies wear out and we are put out to pasture just when we actually learned what we were doing and got really good at it.

      You mentioned Harper Lee. I read somewhere that Margaret Mitchell never followed up on "Gone with the Wind" because she didn't believe she could top it and didn't want to try. Then shamefully, an egotistical writer came along and wrote a pseudo followup that stunk! Good article, is that really a young you in the photo? Happy rest of week to you, my friend.

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      Jackie Lynnley 2 weeks ago from The Beautiful South

      We strive to do the best we can. Whether we do great things or not, we give it our best shot, and hurt no one getting there.

      You give so much food for thought, Bill. Your writing has helped many I am sure of that.

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      Chris Mills 2 weeks ago from Missoula, Montana at least until March 2018

      Bill, this is you at your best. You say that you are a writer, an urban farmer? I say you are a Johnny Appleseed, planting seeds of challenge, hope, and love wherever you go.

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      Clive Williams 2 weeks ago from Jamaica

      My Personal Best. Made a great tasting coffee in record time!

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      Lori Colbo 2 weeks ago from Pacific Northwest

      I feel like if I can touch or help one person through my artistic endeavors I've done well, maybe not my best, but well. That would also apply to anything in my life. Like through my adversities I can reach out to someone, or something I know or have done. Doing the best is most important.

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      Bronwen Scott-Branagan 2 weeks ago from Victoria, Australia

      It seems to be the way our Creator made us, doesn't it? We're continually striving to improve our personal best. But how much more important that is, than trying to be better than our neighbour. I can really relate to this article.

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      shanmarie 2 weeks ago

      I love this motivational article, Bill. It goes along with something I keep debating with myself whether or not to publish - a statement of sorts addressing some things someone said to me back before the holidays. I was told that opportunity has passed me by and that I should just quit dreaming. It angered me, but coming from someone I cared about, it also made me stop and think long and hard. I came to the conclusion that this person never really understood me or ones me if it was thought I have my head in the clouds and think it'll comes to me on a platter or that by dreaming it will magically happen. No, to me, dreams are synonymous with hope. I dream of better days. I dream of making a positive difference. I dream of better opportunity. And sometimes I do feel as though all opportunity really has passed me by, right along with the "personal best" part of my life, but that's not necessarily so. So I keep going. What other choice do I have? I have to dream in order to go forward.

      And you, Sir, have many more personal bests to come.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Then I might retire like Harper Lee, Kari! :) Thank you!

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      Kari Poulsen 2 weeks ago from Ohio

      Who knows, Bill, you could still be on the cover of Time Magazine. After you write that New York Times Bestseller. It will be a new personal best.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Too funny, Peg! I feel the same way when I play "Words with Friends"...good score until I notice what other people have done.

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      Peg Cole 2 weeks ago from Dallas, Texas

      Interesting observations, Bill. I noticed when playing Spider on my Kindle the other night that at the end of winning a game a box came up that showed "my personal best." I had achieved an unremarkable score in just 11 minutes. Then, I noticed that the "All Time Best" showed a 30 second game with four times my score. I guess my best just ain't good enough. LOL. But I'll keep on keeping on. It's the best we can do.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Well by God, Mike, you're right, Lee can't say that. LOL Now I'm feeling superior to Harper Lee. How cool is that? :) thanks buddy

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Oh Denise, I'm sorry if you thought I felt doomed. Not at all...this was a positive piece saying the best is yet to come....I guess I missed the mark on that one. :) Thanks for reading.

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      mckbirdbks 2 weeks ago from Emerald Wells, Just off the crossroads,Texas

      Surely you meant the six minute quarter-mile.

      What an optimistic piece of writing you have presented here. Now, Resurrecting Tobias, was a damn fine piece of writing, 'movie worthy', but that does not mean that what followed had to live up to the bar set by Tobias. You are prolific, Harper Lee cannot say that.

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      Denise McGill 2 weeks ago from Fresno CA

      Oh Bill,

      I think it isn't quite right to compare intellectual skills with physical ones. As we age physical skills diminish, while intellectual skills are more acute because you've had time to hone them and mature them. Take painting art for instance; I feel my personal best is still ahead of me simply because each time I create I am building on the skills I've been honing up till now. When I was 20 I may have been at my physical best but my art was only raw talent and no real skill. I had to work long and hard to hone it to what it is today. Who knows why Harper Lee didn't continue writing. That is her mystery, but it doesn't have to mean that you are doomed to assume you have peaked and will never do as well again. Monet began loosing his eyesight in his 50's and painted even more Impressionistic (and some of his more famous lily pond paintings) than he did in his 30's when the Impressionists were in their infancy. Degas went blind and thought his life and art were over when his friend Mary Cassatt came in and told him to get over himself (we Americans can be blunt) and plopped some clay in front of him. His most famous sculptures were created after he went blind. Who know if your great opus is ahead of you or not. But I for one will be creating till they pull the paintbrush out of my cold dead fingers.

      Blessings,

      Denise

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      I would think that kind of early fame would carry a curse with it, Flourish, and that kind of curse would be hard to live with for sure.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Love you attitude, Sha! Thanks for finding the time to stop by and share your personal wisdom.

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Very true, Linda, very true! Wouldn't it be lovely to be alive and see their entire lives unfold?

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      All true, Peggy! I certainly spend a fair amount of time in introspective pursuits. Thanks for reading, my friend.

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      FlourishAnyway 2 weeks ago from USA

      Imagine being an Olympian or child actor who peak so early then have the rest of their lives to think about it. At some point it’s true that each of us isn’t as good as we once were.

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      Shauna L Bowling 2 weeks ago from Central Florida

      Think about it: if every tomorrow becomes today, then every today becomes yesterday and is behind us. Using that logic, it would be quite amazing to have our "personal best" behind us. Each day presents a new opportunity, so we have a lifetime of achieving possible "personal bests" that we can leave behind.

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      Linda Lum 2 weeks ago from Washington State, USA

      Bill, in the 6th decade of our lives, we probably HAVE already peaked...but there's always that chance (slim though it may be) that our "best" is still tucked away inside. There could still be that perfect combination of words.

      But if not, you know that we will live on in the lives of our children, and oh what wonderful things they still have to accomplish...that peak is still years away for them.

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      Peggy Woods 2 weeks ago from Houston, Texas

      This was certainly an introspective look at this subject of which almost everyone should be able to relate. Those of us who have racked up a fair amount of birth dates have even more to ponder when looking back as that path is now longer than the one ahead of us. Perhaps that is why we become more philosophical as we age?

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Aww, thanks Emese! Great minds think alike, obviously. :)

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you whonu! I wish I could still chase flies in the outfield on a warm summer day. Now I'm afraid I draw flies and not chase them. lol Blessings to you, my friend.

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      EmeseRéka 2 weeks ago from The Desert

      I love this, Bill. Funny, I've been thinking about the same issue in the past few days, and more so earlier this morning, then I read this. I think we can all relate to it, on some level. I know I can. Great work, as always.

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      whonunuwho 2 weeks ago from United States

      Nice work Bill. When I saw the photo of you I thought of me, too. My greatest time of my life, LOL, playing baseball. It meant the world to me then and brings back fond memories, made me more determined to succeed, too. Many blessings to you and family. whonu

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      Bill Holland 2 weeks ago from Olympia, WA

      Thank you Eric! You're first this morning. Impressive! Who said old men weren't quick? lol Have a great Thursday my friend.

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      Eric Dierker 2 weeks ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      What a great area of inquiry. Much to ponder. I will keep my eye on the ball to see if I can reach my personal best in trying.

      I remember here on HB I thought those first articles were my best --- boy was I wrong.

      Thanks Bill for framing the issues so well.

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