Do We "Fall in Love" or Just Lose Our Balance?
Just a Thought to Ponder
Love is kind and giving, it's accepting one's self, first, before having the ability or the capability to love another human being. It's not hard to do. But, sometimes it may seem kind of difficult, depending on the nature of it all! There's a big difference between the two kinds of love that we experience and some of us have felt these emotions a time or two in our lives.
We Fall and Crash Sometimes
We all have lived and loved and we have been "in love" and have "fallen" out of it. We can convince ourselves that we are in this thing called "in love" But what comes after it all when it's gone? Where did it go and how do we get it back? Is it lost forever and when you do give your heart and soul to that special someone, what happens if all of it is gets lost along the way?
Is there anything left to give even of ourselves to feel the love that we once gave away and yet we want it back? Where does it go? What is one to do?
Love in itself is an intirety of just the feelings and emotions, you feel like you can't ever lose it, can't forget it and can't live without it when in fact you can...
There is no love greater than the love shared between a mother and her child.
True Love is in the Eyes of a New Born Baby
When we were born, our mother's fell in love with us... When I gave birth to my kids, It was instant LOVE. Let me tell you that it's a love that has no comparison to any other kind of love than by God. Never to know anything stronger than that kind of love. It's unconditional and forthright. I never had the need to do more than just love and nurture my kids. There is no love greater than the love shared between a mother and her child.
Does Society Define Love?
If only people could remember the first time they truly felt love. Eventually, time is not on your side and somehow It gets lost in relationships, life's struggles and confuses one of the ability to "actually" "fall in love"!
No one can actually "fall in love". It's not something you can fall into. It's not supposed to be based on actions or non-actions. It's not even based on conditions or on what you do or say or what you don't...It's not based on what you get back. It's all about what you give.
It's not based on what you get back. It's all about what you give.
You Have to Love Me - We Only Tripped!
You see, my friends, We can't control the actions of others and we certainly can't control what life does to us! We, however, can control what we do to our own lives. We can't fall out of any emotion. The degree in which we feel those emotions may and can change...
Any emotional capabilities we are born with and don't you think that It's up to us to discover what it is that we can accomplish. No one can "give" us what we have been looking for...it's not possible. It's up to the individual! We are in control of our own lives and what we do with it. We can and are in control of the essence of our Love!
Procession of Life
So, don't try to make someone love you or be "in love" with you. It happens naturally and if it's not on the same wavelength as you are, then embrace what you are given...embrace what you do have and not what you don't. Then walk away if neither one of you will benefit by "loving each other" and just let it be...
Happiness Starts with YOU
Be happy with yourself first and the rest will "fall" (if-you-will) into the place and at the end of the day... LOVE never subsided and it didn't go away...it just might have changed, taken on a different level of emotion. It's still there, may not be what you want....but it's there... and embrace it!
Love never ceases it like how seasons change and it can change without warning but that's ok too because tomorrow is a new day where love can and will grow or be kept as a hidden treasure to be discovered by another buried treasure and know the love can also be a beautiful disaster, it's still love and love is such a beautiful feeling to be embraced by the beauty that twinkles in your eyes from the most beautiful sunset waiting for another day to be born and then instant love awaits its destiny!
© 2020 Donna Rayne