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Appalled by the Morals of Dating

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Lost by the Dating World

She is a little lost and appalled by the dating world.
She doesn’t understand why men don’t get to know a person first before asking personal questions.
She wonders why the world has changed so much.
Is chivalry dead? No more moral codes for anyone to follow.

Nothing Like the Old Fashioned Way

Nothing like the old fashioned way of calling on the phone to hear someone’s voice.
Today it is all done on these new smartphones. What a convenience for men who have no real interest in a relationship.
She finds herself confused with this new era of meeting one another.
It seems men are a bit too desperate. Or is it because she is in her upper fifties men assume she is so hopeless she will pick anyone just to have a date?

No Real Conversation. Just Pictures

There seems to be no real conversation, no date arranged before he begins to ask personal sexual questions.
Ones that to her, a lady would not divulge over the phone to a complete stranger.
Then in no time he sends her a quick picture of his private area.
She cannot believe what her eyes are seeing. Do men really believe this is going to make any woman want to date them?

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A Turn Off

To her, it is a turn off. She will not be contacted by these men anymore. That is one blessing the smartphone does give her the option to control.
She sees nothing wrong with looking at a males physic, but there is a time and place for that to occur.
She believes it is no problem if one is involved in a trusting relationship. They can chose to send private pictures to the one they love.

Fascination with Porn

She concludes men who are not in real relationships have a fascination with porn.
Do men watch so much porn they actually believe this is the type of man a woman really desires? Is it the type of woman they really desire?
She finds this manner of talking with a man reveals his need to boost his own ego.
He hopes to experience real porn in real life.

Do They Have Any Idea?

She wonders if they have any idea they are going about it the wrong way.
For a woman has sexual desires just like a man. Once she knows she is honestly in love and this love is totally reciprocated there are no limits.
She hopes men can learn how to treat a lady, but she will no longer participate in this new game of dating.

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BRENDA ARLEDGE (author) from Washington Court House on December 13, 2019:


Thank you for reading and commenting.

Umesh Chandra Bhatt from Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India on December 13, 2019:

Good article. Factual. Thanks.

BRENDA ARLEDGE (author) from Washington Court House on December 12, 2019:


Thank you. I wasn't sure about posting this one, but it is so men can be so nerve wracking.

Thanks for reading.

Cheryl E Preston from Roanoke on December 12, 2019:

Great info. The world today is all about sex