Reasons Why Hate Is Time Wasted
What is Hate - ADL
- What is Hate?
Many people can’t see hate for what it really is. Hate is nothing more than some feeling used to bury some other feeling. And even in this, it is unfulfilled.
It doesn't really erase the feelings at all. All it does is contribute to all the feelings that suck inside. This places more weight on you, and hate becomes the evil that's leading the line of depressing feelings which develops inside.
Hate Doesn't Make You a Rational Thinker
Sure, while during your job in this economy today, you’re likely doing other professions that you are capable of doing, but aren’t getting paid for.
And yes you can see, that instead of the capable firm hiring other people who desperately need a job to do this work; they shove all the work on you. And as if that isn't bad enough, they don’t up your pay for the professions you’re doing, nor for the days you stay over-time. You officially hate this freaking job.
As much as you’d like to tell your boss to take this job and do something else with it because you really don’t care, you’re leaving forever, you shouldn't. And maybe if you had never hated your job in the first place, you probably would've at least found another one before you just quit during a recovering economy.
What I'm saying is, hating something effects your ability to think things through. There you would be, eating cans of beans and corn, hopeful that the lights don't go out before you can get another job.
Please, try not to let hate fuel your decisions.
Hate Doesn't Really Hurt Other People
You don’t even want to imagine where you could end up because of this. Hatred has a way of making you care about what someone thinks of you.
You end up doing things, succeeding at them, and looking at this person to see what they say or how they’re going to react. Please don’t waste your time.
Half of these people couldn't even think farther than they could sit in a love-seat adjacent to their body. Why would you expect them to have consideration, respect, or anything for anyone else?
Yeah sure, maybe some people will get jealous and feed that dark desire, but what if they don’t.
What if you get to the pinnacle of success and happen to be standing among the world’s most successful people? You look up and see this person, this doubter, this high school bully, to name a few, and you manage to get their attention. You walk up to them, greet them, and ask if they remember you. And for the life of them, they can’t remember you at all. And guess what, even if they could remember, a smart jerk, male or female, wouldn't give you that type of satisfaction.
All I'm saying is, if you're going to move-on then do that and leave the past where it is. You will find yourself very disappointed for climbing to a level that someone is on that you hate, just to be better than them. And when you surpass them on their ladder, nothing happens. You're just there, and they've moved on so far they don't even remember you or care to.
Don't let hate waste your valuable time and capabilities in life.
Hate Doesn't Make You Strong
If anything you get weaker. You get the benefit of walking around all puffy and pent up. And when the person that you hate so much comes up to you and says something, anything, you burst.
One would think that at this time, out of your mouth would come a rationale retort. That at this time, you would, in your perfectly logical anger, retort words that would rival Hannibal Lecter’s criticisms to Clarice Starling. You would state your hatred towards them, why you feel it, and what they can do or where they can shove it.
But no, you burst into a puffy-faced wild person, swinging, pointing, spewing, and spitting words that nobody can understand, possibly with tears rolling down your face.You look like a crazy person with no idea of what you’re angry about or what you’re doing.
And now, you’re about to get tasered because you’re in a public place and somebody called a security guard.The thing is, hate has that element of rage behind it, and if it isn't controlled, you'll end up looking like a baby having a huge temper tantrum. And yeah, about to get tasered also. Don't let hate humiliate you.
Hate Doesn't Help You Win Fights
A lot of people need to realize that just because they have tons of pent up rage, that doesn’t mean that they'll be a better fighter when they get in a fight.
Some people must separate fact from fiction. The angry kick boxer going for revenge in the movie is much different from the angry guy who took some karate classes and goes for revenge. Surely you've seen it.
This person has every reason to hate this backstabber, bully, or liar. And although they may deserve to kick someone’s butt, they may want to take another route. Then again hate can be a blinding thing, and lead you to tell yourself an outright lie.
Something like, because you hate them the rage inside will cause you to fight like Goku on Dragon Ball Z. But upon getting into the fight, you actually end up waking up on a street curve or sidewalk.
Great fighting skills begin with practice and dedicated hard work. You must train, train, and train some more.The great thing about ever learning and dedicating yourself to a particular fighting style is that the those skills never really go away.
And you have to tell people that are all too ready to fight someone; they are not Jet Li. But again, hatred has somehow jammed up their eardrums. They get beat-up, it's embarrassing, and just makes life worst.
Don't let hate deceive you, especially in believing it improves your fighting skills.
Hate is Weight On Your Head and Heart
The truth, what I've seen and learned in my life, is that hatred blocks you from your true potential. Even if you have to see this person every single day, to allow yourself to be aggravated by their presence kills your ability to live your life. This doesn't happen quickly, this happens slowly overtime. That’s why it’s such a bad idea to be this way.
I found that you must live and let live. Remove yourself from around this person and keep it that way. If you don’t like someone and you must interact with them, it’s usually better to just do your work and deal with them when you must if you must.
But let them get closer to you like a friend, or something more than that, no way. Never trust someone who’s given you reason to hate or dislike them.
I know it's terribly hard to stop hating someone when they truly deserve it. You should fight it is because of the control that it can have over you.
I believe hate is something that must be stopped one individual at a time. If not for your neighbor then definitely for yourself.