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"Ramnivas", the residence of the Swamis at Benaras

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Painting by Dr S Janaki

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The friend, philosopher, guide, guardian, and host

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Janaki and Swami at Benaras (early 1960s)

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A stricken Janaki

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Included below is a personal homage to late Dr.Janaki and late VK Swamy by a visitor to the Hub page who was closely known to them. Being a four-page hand-written document, it was too long to be with the other comments. Also the written matter of this note, in my opinion, was qualitatively appropriate to be part of the main content of the presentation rather than being a comment. The picture below shows the first of the four pages and is followed by typed copy of the contents of all of them.

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New York, 5th Nov'2017

My dear Sridhar1,

On reading your brief story in verse of the life of late Janaki Athangar2 and Swamy Athimbair3, I felt morally compelled to write a few lines. My memory goes back six decades ago (Dec of 1953). They were my angels guiding my destiny - a couple exemplary in every way. I have very special and pleasant memories of their association. Not a moment passes each day without thinking about them. In life's journey, one meets a few who make an indelible impression that leaves a sweet fragrance throughout your life. Our family greatly benefited much from their generosity of spirit and their magnanimity of heart. When my family consisting of my parents and three siblings landed in Chennai in Dec 1953 from Malaysia, we hardly knew anyone. Perhaps it was divine intervention that brought us into contact with Ramanna Athimbair3 and Nagamma Athai4 who were solely instrumental in my marriage, Both my dad and Ramanna Athimbair3 being in the same teaching profession, immediately struck a chord and became fast friends. My father's first duty was to proceed to Benaras to perform the obsequies for his departed parents. Incidentally, he was able to meet Swamy Athimbair3 and Janaki Athangar2 who came forward to guide him in the selection of priests etc., in an unknown place. I must consider myself greatly blessed and privileged to have had their blessings and guidance especially when my parents were away in far off Malaysia. Each time we visited Benaras, we were greatly overwhelmed by their outpouring of love and hospitality. Their exceptionally altruistic nature made us feel greatly humbled. In those days, for women to emerge successful and come to the forefront was very rare and unusual. Credit goes to Swamy Athimbair3 for his unflagging support. Seeing the great potential in his wife, he gave unflinching encouragement to pursue her dreams. Despite her illustrious career, she remained humble, simple, and unassuming, which reflects her nobility of character.

Variety is the spice of life they say, and I found Athangar2 a repository of many branches of art namely music and painting. Her unflinching enthusiasm and zest for life was amazing. Since playing on the violin was my forte, I found her company exhilarating and refreshing. In one of my visits when I had a longer stay, I had the opportunity of meeting her tutor Dr. Rajam to whom she went for her violin lessons. I remember learning a Kriti6 on raga Begada from Athangar2. After the hectic schedule at the hospital, no matter how late it was, she would sit down to practice pieces on the violin. She had spare violins as her eldest son (Chandra Athimbair3) I heard was also very good playing on this instrument. Another incident I very vividly remember is the boat ride on the river Ganges followed by visits to the temples - Vishwanath and Sankatmochan. Their house just outside the BHU campus was a welcome haven to all our relatives including my brothers Swaminathan and Viswanathan who graduated from BHU. I still remember the day she breathed her last (I think it was the 13th July 1969) at the Military Cantonment Hospital, N. Delhi and accompanying the body along with other relatives to Balu Mama5's house in Greater Kailash for the last rites. Now, in my 84th year, I have learnt by observation and experience that when you allow things to unfold, you come to realize the purpose of life. I am thankful to the almighty for the countless blessings, his immense grace and the well wishes of so many elders in the family. Really very gratifying and fortifying.

Last but not least I wish to pay homage to the wonderful couple, especially to Janaki Athangar2 by quoting Wordsworth's poem 'A Perfect Woman'.

"The reason firm, the temperate will,

Endurance, foresight, strength and skill,

A perfect woman, nobly plann'd,

To warn, to comfort, and command;

And yet a spirit, still, and bright

With something of angelic light."

With love to all at home. Your affly,

Sundari Subramanian

Footnote:

1. The letter is addressed to the author of this article, Ram Ramakrishnan, which is his official name. At home, and among family, the author goes by the name of Sridhar. The writer of the letter is the author's maternal aunt.

2. 'Athangar' refers to father's sister's daughter in Tamil

3. 'Athimbair' refers to a sister's husband in Tamil

4. 'Athai' refers to father's sister in Tamil.

5. Mama refers to mother's brother in most Indian languages.

6. Kriti is the word for a composition.

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