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Indelible Moments with Dad

I discovered my passion for writing after I quit my day job. So I began to write fiction stories, self-help books, and articles, blogs, etc.


My Dad breathed his last in May 1998. But when my Dad was healthy and strong years before, we had the time of our life. I would like to pour down here the memorable moments we spent together as a family and how we thrived.

Dad in a Teaching Career and as Our Tutor

Dad had great educational degrees – Ph.D. in Computer Engineering from Paris and MSc in Electrical Engineering from London. He had thousands and thousands of students as he took up a teaching career at some point in his life. Earlier he was a research scientist.

He was in high demand anywhere he wanted to be recruited and always got the job he yearned for because of his prestigious educational qualifications and experiences.

Therefore, when we had troubles with our academic studies, it was Dad who helped us out. Without his help, it would have been impossible for my siblings and me to stay at the top of our classes.

We remember your help, Dad, and we are forever grateful to you. It is the foundation in our academic backgrounds that you laid out for us, which is why we are where we are now and are living life to the fullest.

Dad, Our Prospective Tutor

Dad, Our Prospective Tutor

Seminar on Ozone Layer Depletion

There are many special moments between my Dad and me. But the one that strikes me now is that Dad had lectured me in my academic lessons in Biology about ozone layer depletion and the causes and effects.

So when he heard about a seminar that was about to take place in the city on this topic, he made sure I attended it and accompanied me to the venue. It was fun-learning for me, and there were lots of free snacks and drinks during recess intervals. They were unforgettable memories with my Dad.

I know Dad that you made sure I attended this seminar because you wanted the very best for me and desired that I excel in Biology O-level exam.

Family Outings to Chinese Restaurants

Dad loved to taste the food of various kinds. He always asked Mom to cook a variety of dishes, and he would taste and relish them. Sometimes, he even gave breaks to Mom from the routine, and we all went to the best Chinese restaurants in the city and dined together for lunch or dinner.

These are the moments we will always treasure, Dad. You taught us how to bring our tastes in a variety of foods. LOL!

Long Drives Along with Hit English Songs

After Dad purchased a genuine dark cyan Toyota Starlet directly from Japan in the late eighties, he made sure our family went on long drives listening to hit English songs playing in the car’s record player.

Yes, Dad, I would like to savor these moments until my dying day. You taught us how to enjoy the mojo of life and experience thrill and excitement in life.

Watching TV with Dad and Siblings

Together with Dad and my siblings, we always saved time for watching wonderful comedy films on TV. Two of the most popular ones for us were, “The Cosby Kids” and “Family Ties”.

Dad, we honor you because you taught us how to find great interest in TV comedy shows and have fun and share laughs. We learned how to light up our world amid everything and find joy in everyday life.


Dad departed from the world quite early. He didn’t get to experience so many events that took place after he passed away- not even my graduation from the university.

Since then, so many years have passed for us both with highs and lows. Yet, it has been possible for us to soar all along because Dad, you showed us the way, and we followed your footprints in the sands of time.

Dad, you may have left us, but we can never forget your principles, guidelines, disciplines, and directions of life that you had already instilled in us.

Dear Dad, we do reminisce all the moments until now that we shared with you all those years back.

Dad, do remember that you were our best guide, tutor, and father to help us move forward all along.

© 2019 Rosina S Khan


Rosina S Khan (author) on February 22, 2021:

Probably, Peggy. My Dad was special to me and impacted my life in several positive ways. It is very long he is gone but I miss him still every now and then.

Thank you for reading and your kind comments.

Peggy Woods from Houston, Texas on February 22, 2021:

You had written about your dad in another article. I know how proud you are of him. You have some special memories to savor all of your life.

Rosina S Khan (author) on February 22, 2021:

Thanks for liking this tribute to my Dad. Yes, I have used early death of the father of Keily in Keily, the Bookworm series. Whatever I write is somehow based on my personal experiences, which I find easy to express.

Thank you, Manatita for reading and your kind comments.

manatita44 from london on February 22, 2021:

A beautiful piece, Rosina. Lovely!

You may not think so, but for me you saw this in some of your articles, even without mention. Salaam!

Rosina S Khan (author) on February 22, 2021:

I am glad you like the tribute to my Dad. Thank you for reading and your generous comments. For some reason or the other, I seem to be thinking about him today right this moment. I appreciate your comments.

Chitrangada Sharan from New Delhi, India on February 22, 2021:

Great article and a beautiful tribute to your father. I remember, you have written about him earlier too.

This was touching. Thank you for sharing.

Rosina S Khan (author) on February 22, 2021:

Thank you, Misbah, for your kind comments. Although it has been long he has passed away, I still remember him and miss him very much. Yes, may his soul rest in peace.

Misbah Sheikh from The World of Poets on February 22, 2021:

Rosina, I am sorry to hear you lost your dad

It is a wonderful tribute to your father

Fathers are always precious to daughters

I wish May his Soul Rest in Peace, Amen!

Rosina S Khan (author) on February 22, 2021:

Thank you, Ravi. I appreciate your generous comments regarding my personal writeup.

Ravi Rajan from Mumbai on February 22, 2021:

Very special write from you Rosina.Thanks for sharing this really personal work

Rosina S Khan (author) on February 22, 2021:

Dad-Daughter relationships are always special.

Rosina S Khan (author) on June 07, 2020:

Yes, Brenda, I lost Dad at a young age. It is very kind of you to visit and make generous comments. Yes, Dad had influenced us positively in many ways. To this day, my dreams are full about him.

You too have a great, enjoyable Sunday.

BRENDA ARLEDGE from Washington Court House on June 07, 2020:


I am sorry to hear you lost your dad at such a young age.

He sounds like he was a kind and caring man who left remarkable traits with his family.

You are fortunate he influenced your life and taught you many great things.

I am sure he is proud of all of your accomplishments.

Take care. Have a great day.

Rosina S Khan (author) on August 09, 2019:

Thank you, Lorna. I am glad you liked my article!

Lorna Lamon on August 09, 2019:

Such a loving tribute to your father Rosina, his influence is clearly seen in each line. Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories.

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