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Each morning, if we are fortunate enough to wake up, we should approach our mornings with a dash of Sag to take a few minutes to think. Am I living or just existing to paying bills until I die?
If you would also take the time to stop and think about what the actual purpose of life, then ask yourself. “What would it take for me to let go of the past and be happy with how I am living my life?” Our time on this Earth is short, and — you should enjoy viewing your life and the world around you as full of things to be grateful for, to live over existing.
If you let go of the things that no longer serve a purpose or make you better, it would give you answers to questions that will immediately reveal things and put an end to everything that allows you just to exist, so how do you do it? There’s only one primary way and that through happiness, it is the meaning and the purpose of life, the entire layout that will put the end of a human just merely existing.
Some people love the life they are living and do what it takes to keep it and everyday work on improving it. In contrast, life dissatisfies others of us with everything about our lives, and we need to make some significant changes.
To change your life, start by acknowledging that you have allowed life to shift you in the wrong direction, and immediately begin working on changing the things that will aid you to get stuck in a rut.
You allow the entity to convert you to autopilot, and when it’s auto-steering you, that’s the way to stop ‘living life to the fullest’ you’re letting your lives pass you By. But what you need to do is find your way and make a plan that will serve you in looking at the things you’d like to change.
Start by asking yourself, are you happy with how you are living your lives, do you want more out of life, or are you just passing through the motions of feeling empty inside? If you need more out of life and want to stop allowing your thoughts and feelings to be a hinder, training your mind is a key priority in your life.
If you want to stop wandering around aimlessly through life, it’s time to make a change. Some of us have lived briefly, happy with our days, but among those abundant things, we stop appreciating what we have in life to only start existing to lose all enjoyment of life.
Begin changing first the things that are the most achievable and more convenient for the modifications you willing to make. This will move your life in a positive direction and reinforce the focus on improving the barriers you’ve wished you could have avoided.
Now you are required to halt and ask yourself, do I start with my personal or professional life? You know, if you pick the change that’s the most workable in both aspects of your life, you will have the most significant positive effect on your life to be successful.
Benjamin Franklin said. “Many people die at the age of twenty-five and aren’t buried until they are seventy-five.” Implying, life isn’t meant to be lived just hang around until you get used to it, going through the motions, yet utmost of us stop living and begin just merely to exist to pay bills until we die.
Although many still get up, go to work or maintain their daily routine, but what are they doing to stop just paying bills until they die. Many should map out a plan to continue living life for all it’s worth instead of being stuck in a dead-end job, unhappy, and go through the motion.
Going through the motion is not to say that you are living. We just must love the career we are doing and bring additional things, people, and adventures into our lives to live fully.
The difference between living fully and just merely existing?
Fully Living is when an individual is happy in their everyday lives. They learn to live life to its full purpose and living life for all its worth. A person who knows how to view an opportunity and take advantage of it to move forward and succeed. When life is not what you wish to become, you know how to create a fantastic experience and with the right attitude in everything you do.
Just Existing is an individual miserable with their everyday life. They are going through the motion of just existing on the earth. They have not found their purpose; they are just breathing every day instead of living life. The person gets up, works, but more than likely it’s a dead-end job, they are unhappy and going through the motion just to exist. They do not have the proper attitude to put things into action to get results. Therefore, they are wasting their time doing things that won’t better their life.
Seven Steps to Change Your Life from Existing to Fully Living
Step 1 Make a ‘First Step’ Plan After deciding to change your life. It’s essential to have a plan. Whether that plan involves better health, a different career, improving marriage, etc. If you work in an unconventional job, the first step is to update your resume and post it on https://www.linkedin.com. Then gets in touch with a recruiter to assist you with your career change.
If your first step plan is to work on improving your marriage, then you should talk to your spouse. You can also get recommendations for the couple’s therapist. Whatever in your life that needs changing, you make that a necessary action to make a drastic shift in your mentality. After taking the first step to planning what you dislike about your life, it is much easier to make a plan for what follows.
Step 2. Stop Waiting for Permission Some people have lived their entire life waiting for approval to do what they feel they need to do in life. Stop waiting for consent from others it’s time you start a journey to chase enormous dreams or live the life you want. Although from a child, we asked a mother or daddy’s permission before we do something. When we grow into an adult, we should no longer wait for validation, it’s time to stop waiting for permission to live; stop existing, and stop listening to doubt, fear, and self-limiting beliefs.
Step 3. It’s necessary to want more from life too often in life, fear, and no vision keeps you from living life to its fullest. We must visualize the life we want and put in action. When you spend most of your life dreaming about what you wish to do with no result, it means that you do not know how to get there. Although life has limitations, you must have the ability, a proper roadmap to help you live the life you have dreamed about, and the personality, to be successful in life.
Steps 4. Lean on a trustworthy Person for Support Often, once we’ve changed our lives, it’s hard to do it alone. We need to lean on a trustworthy person who loves you and wants the best for you. They will be the support you need, and they will believe in your ability to make a change.
The person you are leaning on for support has already been through a similar change in his or her life, and they are more than willing to help offer a better life to you. They are the ones that will not only be supportive but can practically guide you in the right direction to stop existing but start living.
Step 5 Forgive the People who have hurt you. Life is already too short to be walking around holding something in your heart again, your sister or brother, which is what prevents happiness. Forgive the person who hurt you, not that you must forget or continue being a friend with them. Know that to forgive is to be strong, and to make progress in life to bring you happiness. It also gives the individual that can forgive the ability to be free of the heavyweight and bondage not forgiving hold.
Step 6 Take the time to learn why living is significant over existing. If a person never takes a moment to take action to learn why it’s essential to know why they spend too much time focusing on the wrong things in life, they will never know how to live. By all means, we have different responsibilities, a job, and other things in life we never took the time to enjoy, but to live and not just exist we need an enormous part of our lives to focus on the enjoyable things.
To learn why living is more important than just existing, get out to explore the world and the things you love in life. Whether you enjoy singing, playing chess, reading, playing cards, traveling, etc. While we do not have the means to travel, which most would enjoy, we must do something else that is exciting to us. What’s most indispensable is not to spend too much time focusing on that which makes you miserable that existing, not living. No matter how you fool yourself or believe you are living, you are only existing.
Step 7 Time to put into perspective less is more. If you would just take the time to read up on the wealthy and celebrities who have more money than they could ever spend and still not happy. You will learn how to put into perspective less is more. To stop existing. First, be happy. Having everything you could ever want does not bring forth happiness. Although a person has abundant resources do not mean they are living. It only says they have total assets.
Now let’s put into perspective the meaning of “less is more.” “Less is more” doesn’t have to mean you cannot have beautiful things in life, nor am I applying less material things creates higher morality, but with more asset life is less pleasant. In living, no one person is better than everyone else. Maybe one person has generated more material things for money than another, but if we allow ourselves to get caught up in measuring, we risk missing the point.
The means for life and “Less is more.” What I mean by “Less is more” the less we focus on, the more content and the happier we will become. Meaning when we narrow our focus, the more significant the impact will become in life. A perfect example would be the less clutter in our life, work or home, the better we could live a happier life instead of existing on earth.
Less stress would improve your health. The less work we take on, the more time we can spend with families and friends. Free up your life of things unnecessary that prevent you from living. When you free your life from things that will bring about stress and make you just exist, you have put into perspective “Less is more.”
The last word, now we have the full meaning of are we living or just existing to pay bills until you die and know the difference between the two; You should work on saying no to what you do not have to do and stop fearing what you want and need to do. It should be easier to switch from validation mode and auto-assuming.
You should be happier with life so you can stop just paying bills until you die and begin genuinely living to your full potential. You should already be making significant changes in your life by drift from the physical presence of those who do not be in your life. Although the change will not happen overnight, what is most important is the change will come, and you understand the difference mean you have to shift from existing.
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Pam Morris (author) from Atlanta Georgia on March 26, 2016:
Thank you for your reply. From reading your reply, you are a survivor, and I encourage you to get that support group. I would love to be apart. You could make a difference in so many life. I would like to read the inspiring stories
fanbrits johnson on November 13, 2015:
I'd consider myself a survivor. Last year had a spine surgery and it didnt go quite well. Tried to visit doctors, after reading some info here http://spinet.ru/osteoh/Complication...-treatment.... i came to a conclusion that nothing's broken just yet. And honestly Im trying to gather a support group so looking for inspiring stories.