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Often, most of us have a bit of unfounded worry going on from time to time. The truth is most people fear because they recognize the danger, and that is normal to us. It's been said that 85 percent of what most of us worry about is in our head and never happens. A lot of what you worry over is not much more than a big imagination running away with you.
Do you find yourself feeling self-conscious and worrying others are watching you? Do you live your life worrying that people might be judging and assessing what you are doing? If the answer is “Yes” to all the questions, you are worrying too much about what people think. It is time for you to stop worrying about what people think.
I know this is hard to stop worrying about what others think so you can be more carefree. But don’t continue to worry. There are some things you can do to start making living life easier for you. It starts with you know the signs of worrying too much, and then you learn how to stop worrying about what people think so you can start living a more happy-go-lucky life.
Some might be wondering why do we worry about what other people think here of us? Perhaps you spend too much time and energy worrying about what other people have in mind you. When you should choose to let go of worry decides to get familiar with how well the brain function.
To stop harboring false beliefs begins with demonstrative reasoning and your ability to rationalize or defend a conclusion that you have drawn based on your emotions. To bring to an end by being an excessive worry, you must understand your beliefs influence the way you live and quit agonizing over what individuals think so you can begin living a more joyful life.
The question to ask yourself is. "Why do I feel paranoid?" This will allow you to learn what might be causing paranoid thoughts to come to your mind. These thoughts are paranoid ideas, a rare mental health condition where you believe others are watching and judging you, lying to you, upset with you without a cause, or actively seeking to harm you. By asking the question, it will assist you to stop wondering about things that are false because a part of you knows they’re not untrue.
As humans, we are social by nature, and the need to fit in and be accepted by others is a part of human creation, a part of how some identify themselves. Feeling the need to fit in and considering how we are seen by others may seem natural but that doesn’t mean it’s healthy.
In an extensive judgmental world, it is easy to worry about what someone says about you. Only because a person is judging; you do not mean that what they are speaking is right. Most of us worry and do not even realize we are worrying excessively. Let’s put signs together for you to assist you with halting, agonizing over what others think.
Signs you are worrying too much. Here are some of those signs:
- You’re afraid to express yourself when you are out in public and scared to say what you think to others.
- You’re talking to others and something in their tone sounds off to you.
- After you stop talking to others, you believe that you did something wrong.
- You regularly think it upsets the surrounding people with you without a cause, and they are not.
- You do things that you usually don’t do and then feel bad afterward.
- You consume things that untrue and don’t realize it’s not accurate.
- You don’t fit into a group as it’s hard to do something that seems different. That’s normal for everybody else.
- You have a problem with deciding and do what others say you are going to do.
- People avoid you because; your awkward behavior is frightening to them.
- Does this sound familiar and does any of the sentences below sound like something you would worry over?
- You arrive at a get-together, everybody is socializing, you walk into the room and your mind works overtime. You do not talk to the first person who begins a conversation with you; you think you sound uninterested, tired during the discussion, so you shy away and end the conversation. Even after you stop talking to them, all you can consider being what did I wrong and why is the person mad at me?
Now you should accurately understand the facts that none of us is a perfect conductor of the truth. Despite our best intentions, it is easy to believe false things. As flawed human beings, when you find yourself trusting false concepts or worrying too much, you should eliminate mental shortcuts and consider having an accurate understanding of the facts. And to avoid excessive worrying, you should make sure you know the signs and accept the uncertainty.
If you think you’re different from everybody else in the world, this is why you worry too much. You develop a fear of many things like being watched, being judged by others, and what others think of you.
But when you take the time to think and understand why you care what others think, you can empathize better. It is easier to appreciate and accept yourself for who you are, and then you can stop worrying about what others think of you.
You may have heard the saying, ‘Better to be loved by a few people you care about than liked by everyone’. This proverb holds the truth in this case. Once you understand that everybody will never love you, except the love of a few people and learn you can’t please everyone, you are on your way to not worry so much, and stop worrying what people think of you.
If you want to stop worrying about what people think, you will need to get acquainted with yourself. You will have to set goals to understand who you are and distinguish what you want in life.
Once you sincerely practice self-love for yourself, set goals, and develop self-confidence, you can stop worrying so much as you won’t need anyone else’s approval.
Stop worrying what people think!
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Heather Kirstin Kain from Wichita, KS on July 17, 2019:
So true! Thank you. Just went through this and wrote an article on it. Definitely need to practice this.
Pam Morris (author) from Atlanta Georgia on July 02, 2019:
Marlene, Thank you for reading my hub and, sharing how you used to be overly afraid of what people think, Most important, I am happy to read you discovered that people weren't thinking about you it was all in your head; I am sure you are able now to live a better and carefree life. Thank you for sharing.
Pam Morris (author) from Atlanta Georgia on July 02, 2019:
Lorna, Thank you so much for taking the time to stop by and response to my hub. it is appreciated and I hope to hear from you on other articles.
Robert Walker from Atlanta, GA. on June 28, 2019:
Amen! I Receive It!! ;-)
Marlene Bertrand from USA on June 27, 2019:
I definitely use to be overly afraid of what people think. This fear paralyzed me and caused me to be non-social. Somehow, somewhere in my adult life I discovered, much like in the Olin Miller quote, people aren't thinking about me as much as I think they are. In fact, there are other things in the world that are much more important. They don't have time to be sitting around thinking about little ol' me. The message you share here is quite valuable.
Lorna Lamon on June 27, 2019:
Great article Pam full of sound advice. I love your quotes which are so true. Thank you for sharing.