Every Break-up Opens A New Door Leading To The Person Meant For You

Updated on July 2, 2019
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Break-ups? Ouch!

Indeed, it is wrecking, that is if the word painful does not suffice the hurt from the break-up you have had. I knew there is no such word could completely describe the devastation it brings to you. You have already shed buckets of tears. You have spent many nights thinking about what went wrong. You have had days you do not like going out of your room or house. You have lost your appetite. You start asking yourself. Am I not worthy of being loved? What is wrong with me? Could I still live without him or her?

He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

— Psalm 147:3

To experience pain after a break-up is reasonable because investing one's emotion is the most painful investment one could have. It goes along with saying goodbye to the memories you two have created and wished to continue. It is also the end of a routine you do together. It is like pulling out something which has been in your system. It is excruciating, but it is inevitable. So you have to deal with it. You have to move forward.

I knew you wanted to have a fairytale love story. But it does not come easy. Like any fairytales on the big screen, there would be challenges to overcome before the happy ending. So the break-up and the pain you are experiencing are one of those you need to surpass. It does not define what kind of person you are, but it will help you become the person you intend to be. It will make you wiser and stronger.

He has made everything beautiful in its time.

— Ecclesiastes 3:11

If you try to look for successfully married couples around you and have a chance asking them if they have experienced break-ups, surely most of them would answer yes. And do you think they could find their perfect match if they stopped by the time they got hurt? So do not succumb to your pain now. Get up. It is time to let go. Be hopeful and faithful. A better life is waiting for you. Make progress of yourself. Apply the lessons you have learned from the experience. Do not rush. Be patient. After all, in God's time and when you are ready, a new door will open that will lead you to the person you can be one, your other half, your perfect match.

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    © 2019 Jason M Quinapondan

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      • manunulat profile imageAUTHOR

        Jason M Quinapondan 

        6 weeks ago from Cebu, Philippines

        @Eric

        Thanks.

      • manunulat profile imageAUTHOR

        Jason M Quinapondan 

        6 weeks ago from Cebu, Philippines

        @pamela

        I am glad to know. May you have more happy years of togetherness.

      • manunulat profile imageAUTHOR

        Jason M Quinapondan 

        6 weeks ago from Cebu, Philippines

        @Mary,

        Laban lang, as we say.

        Thanks.

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        Mary Norton 

        7 weeks ago from Ontario, Canada

        I like the message not to give in to pain but move on.

      • manunulat profile imageAUTHOR

        Jason M Quinapondan 

        7 weeks ago from Cebu, Philippines

        @flourishanyway

        Indeed. :)

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        FlourishAnyway 

        7 weeks ago from USA

        Breakups can be difficult because they are the most intimate type of rejection. However, with hope a person can find a mate who is better suited for them.

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        Pamela Oglesby 

        7 weeks ago from Sunny Florida

        This is a very good article as I think most everyone has had a breakup in their past. I am so happy in my marriage of 23 years.

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        Eric Dierker 

        7 weeks ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

        this is quite good, Thanks

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