How to Discover and Experience God's Love

Updated on January 13, 2018
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Yvette is a Christian counselor with a passion to help people find God's purpose for their life. Her hubs are sources of daily inspiration.

Your Heavenly Father wants you to receive and experience his love through simple, child-like faith.
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God So Loves You ...

God's heart of love for you is new every morning, it never ceases, and is always available. He does not accept you based on your performance, and every good gift that you receive comes from him.

In your life, you are likely to experience conditional love and acceptance. You are used to perform to get desired results. For example, you needed to study to pass your courses, and receive a degree to get certain jobs.

In contrast, you can do nothing to get God to love you more or less. Anderson, Miller and Travis (2014) in their book, Grace That Breaks the Chains: Freedom from Guilt, Shame, and Trying Too Hard, points out that "a performance-based Christianity opposes the truth that apart from Christ we can do 'nothing' (John 15:5)".

Since life is usually performance based, it is easy to translate the same ideas in our perception of God and how he relates to us. It is difficult to understand God's unconditional love. But this love does not require your performance, that is, you don't have to be "good" to gain God's love and acceptance.

Take time away in a quiet place and listen carefully to the video below, "God's Love Letter To You," and you could experience a deep sense of the heart of God for you:

This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.

— 1 John 4:9, NIV

Bible Quotes On God's Love for You

The Bible is replete with verses that tell how much God loves mankind unconditionally. You might know all of these verses in your head but this knowledge must be deep in your heart. Take time to meditate on ten such verses below, and receive a deep sense on how much God loves you.

  • But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:8, ESV).
  • For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16, NLT).
  • This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him (1 John 4:9, NIV).
  • This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins (1 John 4:10, NIV).
  • See how very much our Father loves us, for he calls us his children, and that is what we are! But the people who belong to this world don't recognize that we are God's children because they don't know him (1 John 3:1. NLT).
  • And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God's love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow--not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love (Romans 8:38, NLT.
  • And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love (Romans 5:5, NLT)
  • Can a mother forget the baby at her breast and have no compassion on the child she has borne? Though she may forget, I will not forget you! (Isaiah 49:15, NIV).
  • O Lord, you are so good, so ready to forgive, so full of unfailing love for all who ask for your help (Psalm 86:5, NLT)

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The greatest prayer you can pray is not "God use me," it is, "God show me how much you love me, today."

— Carrie Pickett

Understanding the Love of God

You cannot earn God's love. But the crux of the matter is that if you really get a revelation of how much God loves you, then you would love him with your whole heart. Make a decision to embrace God's love, and you will find that the following truths about God's love give you a deep sense of his deep care for you.

  • God's love is unconditional. His love is not based on your performance. He loves you at your best and at your worst. The heart of the matter is that God demonstrated his love for you, by sending his Son into the world, so that through him, you might live (1 John 4:9).
  • God's love endures forever - it has no end. Nothing can separate us from the love of God. Romans 8: 35 - 38 explains that nothing in your past, present or future can ever separate you from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus. On the contrary, the Apostle Paul triumphantly declares, "No, despite all these things, overwhelming victory is ours through Christ, who loved us" (Romans 8:37, NLT)
  • God's love requires relationship. You need to know and experience God's love, and you can only genuinely experience this love when you are in a relationship with him. Jesus Christ came and gave his life sacrificially to make a vibrant Father - child relationship with God possible (I John 4:9 -10; 3:1).
  • God's love empowers you to overcome sin. The Apostle Paul explains that "the love of Christ constrains us" (2 Corinthians 5:14, NKJV). God's love gives you the zeal and power to overcome the temptations and challenges you face to live in obedience to him.
  • God wants you to remain in his love. Jesus explains that he loves you just as his Father loves you, and he instructs you to remain in that love (John 15: 9-10). You have a choice whether you remain in that vibrant relationship with God or not. Whatever your decision is, will not change God's love for you. But it's up to you to choose to enjoy the fruits of a rich and vibrant relationship with your Father.

Take some time to listen to the hymn "The Love of God," sang in the video below, and mediate again on the Bible verses on the love of God in this devotion.

The Love of God - Bill and Gloria Gaither

Prayer of Thanksgiving

Heavenly Father, I thank you for loving me unconditionally and for giving me eternal life through the sacrifice of your Son, Jesus Christ. Thank you that I am your child, and I have a sense of acceptance and belonging because I am enfolded by your love. In Jesus' Name I pray. Amen.

References and Helpful Resources

Anderson N, T., Miller, R., & Travis, P. (2014). Grace that breaks the chains: Freedom from guilt, shame, and trying too hard. Eugene, OR: Harvest House Publishers.

Gordon, I. (n.d). Simple thoughts on the love of God. Accessed August 28, 2015.

Pogue, S. L. (n.d.). God's unique love. Accessed August 28,. 2015.

Whit, R. K (n.d.). The unconditional live of God. Accessed August 29, 2015.

Questions & Answers

  • How do we imitate and experience God's love? How do we love others unconditionally? Do we have to feel loved first?

    The greatest gift we can ever receive is a deep knowledge that God loves us unconditionally. It through this love, which we so freely received, that we can love others. Such words of assurance come to us from 1 John 4:19, "We love because he [God] first loved us" (NIV).

    The first step is to believe that God loves us. Even if we don't feel it initially, as we stand on God's word that he loves us unconditionally our feelings will change to line up with what God says.

    Mediating on Romans 5:5 is very helpful. The Bible tells us that us, "And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us" (NIV). So we are not only assured that God loves us, but we have also been given the capacity to love others because he has poured love in our hearts...

    Our only response is to receive God's love by faith, and as we freely receive it, we freely give to others.

© 2015 Yvette Stupart


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    • Inspired Heart profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvette Stupart 

      4 years ago from Jamaica

      Thanks so much Psalmist4M for your kind words. The heart of the Gospel is God's unconditional love for mankind. As Christian believers, it is that love that empowers us through our vibrant relationship with God. Indeed, the love God is poured in our hearts by the Holy Spirit (Romans 5:5).


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      4 years ago from the Shelter of His Wings

      It is obvious that you are living you name Inspired Heart. Your writing on Unconditional Love is excellent and masterfully written. It exhibits and confirms it's true meaning and God's desire for us to know and seek hard after that love. Thank you for the clarity and voice to share the truth. Many blessings.

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      Yvette Stupart 

      4 years ago from Jamaica

      Thanks so much manatita44. I got a deep sense that I needed to write a devotion on God's unconditional love. There is just so much need for people to how much God loves them. I was so blessed in the process of writing it.



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      4 years ago from london

      Yvette, I commend you here, as this Hub is full of Love. You mention it so much! Yet it can never be mentioned too much. The spiritual life is probably the only place where repitition is so vital.

      Wonderful quotes and very powerful words. I have written so much on Love. Love is ALL in ALL; it is the beginning and the end of the journey; the birthless and deathlessOne and the yearning of the One for The One. He who Loves, never grows old. God is a shining example, and he that dwelleth in Love, dwelleth in God.

      Much Peace, my sweet Sister.

    • Inspired Heart profile imageAUTHOR

      Yvette Stupart 

      4 years ago from Jamaica

      You are very welcome Luther. I am happy to write about the love of God to bless others.


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      Luther Cline 

      4 years ago

      Thank you for this post sister.

      I appreciate it and God bless you.

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      Yvette Stupart 

      4 years ago from Jamaica

      Thanks for your comment peachpurple. God's unconditional love reaches down to us in any situation we find ourselves, no matter how bad.

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      Yvette Stupart 

      4 years ago from Jamaica

      Thanks Gwenneth. I feel that as a Christian, every opportunity I get, I need to tell others about the unconditional love of God. The world needs to know!

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      4 years ago from Home Sweet Home

      God is great, without his love and compassion we are nothing

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      Gwenneth Leane 

      4 years ago

      Thank you for a very well written hub. Thank you for pointing out that we do not have to perform to please God. Thank you for speaking out that God's love is unconditional.


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