What We Learn from Adversities

Updated on June 5, 2018
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Rev. Margaret Minnicks writes for HubPages and Blasting News. She loves sharing interesting information with people all over the world.

Adversity: Definitions

Everyone faces adversity, and it can affect all areas of a person's life. What, then, is an adversity? It is an adverse thing that happens to you. It is a misfortune or a condition marked by calamity, difficulties, or distress. It can also be described as an unfortunate event or circumstance or even a tragedy.

Some synonyms include the followings:

  • misfortune
  • bad luck
  • trouble
  • a difficulty
  • hardship
  • distress
  • disaster
  • sorrow
  • misery
  • trial
  • tribulation
  • woe
  • pain
  • trauma

Adversities Are Teaching Tools

No one likes to have adversities in their lives. However, they do serve a purpose. Adversities carry with them the opportunities to grow beyond what we thought was ever possible. They help us to realize just how much we can bear.

People should have faith to believe that there is always hope within and beyond adversities. So, what do adversities teach us?

Adversities teach us to practice submission. They are those unpleasant rites of passages that help us grow and develop. If we remain true to God during those trying times, then we will come through with a better understanding how adversities are helpful to strengthen us instead of weakening us.

If we never had adversities to deal with, we will never know how they will build our character. It is so easy to praise the Lord when times are good, but what do you do in times of adversities?

When we realize only God can help us, we allow adversities to teach us to rely totally on Him. It is at those times in our lives when we learn to trust God beyond our usual understanding of Him.

No one wants to deliberately experience adversities. When they do occur, they can be teaching tools. When you realize the value of adversities, then you will be able to say what the psalmist said in Psalm 31:7.

"I will be glad and rejoice in thy mercy: for thou hast considered my trouble; thou hast known my soul in adversities."

If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small. (Proverbs 24:10)

What the Bible Says About Adversity

The Bible says some surprising things about adversities. In James 1:2-4, we are told:

“My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into divers temptations; knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.”

Paul gives a similar view about adversity in Romans 5:3-6.

“We glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; and patience, experience; and experience, hope: and hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.”

Both James and Paul knew that all adversity works together for our good and for God’s glory.

What Else Do Adversities Do?

People are encouraged to think about the other things adversities will do.

  • We learn more about what God will do during times of adversity.
  • Adversities get our attention and force us to trust God to provide the help we need.
  • We rely on God and trust Him more if we did not have adversities.
  • Adversities remind us of our weaknesses proving to us that we cannot handle things without God.
  • Adversities motivate us to cry out to God.
  • God uses adversities to help us grow spiritually.
  • Adversities call us to examine ourselves and re-evaluate our priorities.
  • Adversities are evidence of spiritual warfare going on in some area of our lives.
  • Adversities test our faith and our patience.
  • We can experience the power of God through adversities.
  • One of the ultimate purposes of adversity is to cause us draw closer to God.
  • Troubles reveal that on our own we can’t live in a way that honors God. We need to rely on God and receive His grace.
  • One of the most valuable results of adversity is that through it we receive God’s comfort, which we are then able to comfort others who face similar troubles.

How to Overcome Adversities

There is a purpose for adversities. Look at your adversity as an opportunity to grow and live up to a higher potential than you have ever known. In other words, let your bad situation make you a better person.

Be Positive
Change your brain's roadmap. Instead of thinking negative things during adversities, think about how you can use them in a positive way.

Review Your Priorities
Now that adversities have gotten your attention, review your priorities and focus on what is important in your life. You may need to reset your life and do things differently to lower the risk of adversities showing up in your life again.

Adversities will cause you to either GROW UP or GIVE UP.

Know You Are Not Alone
During times of adversities, know that you are not alone. You are not the only or the first one to encounter adversities and you won't be the last one. In fact, it might not be the last time you will have to face adversities again.

Be Vulnerable
Allow yourself to be vulnerable and allow trusted people to help you. Confide in God. Psalm 9 reminds us that God doesn’t abandon those who search for him.

Be Patient
Things will happen when the timing is right. Just because you think you are ready, you might not be. Besides, it doesn’t mean God is ready when you are.

Have Faith
If your heart, mind, soul, and actions are in the right place, have faith that you will come out of adversities a stronger person than before.

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      Margaret Minnicks 7 days ago from Richmond, VA

      Audrey, thanks for reading and commenting. Yes, grief does fall under the category of adversity. I wish I had an answer for you in that particular area, but hopefully the suggestions I made in the article will help.

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      Audrey Hunt 7 days ago from Idyllwild Ca.

      Such an inspiring and enlightening article! Your suggestions for overcoming adversities on spot on. My biggest challenge has been losing my beautiful, sweet son to cancer, leaving 4 children alone to fend for themselves. The mother abandoned them when they were babies.

      Not sure if this experience falls under adversity. All I know is this: the grieving never stops. I feel as devastated today as I did in 2006.

      Thank you for writing about this topic. Blessings to you.

      Audrey

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      Margaret Minnicks 2 weeks ago from Richmond, VA

      Charlie, I look forward to reading your upcoming articles.

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      charlie 2 weeks ago from From Kingdom of God living on Planet earth in between the oceans

      I only write as the Spirit gives to me to write. I have several in the works waiting for final touches and approval to release

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      Margaret Minnicks 2 weeks ago from Richmond, VA

      Yes! I did. I like it, charlie, when you comment in a nice way. If we ever met in person I think we could be fans of each other.

      I check periodically to see if you have written an article, but I read more comments from you on my articles and articles from others but don't see many articles from you.

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      charlie 2 weeks ago from From Kingdom of God living on Planet earth in between the oceans

      did you fall off your chair when you read it? Keep writing like this and I will become a fan

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      Margaret Minnicks 2 weeks ago from Richmond, VA

      charlie, thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts about adversity as a teaching tool. That was exactly the point I was trying to make.

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      charlie 2 weeks ago from From Kingdom of God living on Planet earth in between the oceans

      Margaret - Now this is a truly excellent article. Without adversity I would not have the relationship I have with my Lord. You either grow up or give up as you said. Surrender makes it all real because then you get out of your own way and then He can do what NEEDS to be done.

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