Jean teaches astrology & metaphysics. She is an author, reader, ordained nondenominational minister, and member of the NJ Metaphysical Ctr.
Venus in Pisces Lovers
The Most Spiritual Lovers
People with Venus in Pisces are deeply compassionate and able to empathize with people from every walk of life. It is a simple matter for them to have a good rapport with mostly anyone; these are “old souls” who have walked miles in other people’s shoes. Because Pisces is the last sign of the Zodiac, people with Venus in Pisces understand at a soul level what love has been like for all people.
They are deeply romantic, sensitive, and live for the one they love. These are the sweetest lovers you will ever find. If you get sick, they physically feel your pain. I was married to a Venus in Pisces man for thirty four years, and once when he saw me get stitches, he passed out cold on the floor! You can be with a Venus in Pisces person for ages, and never hear them utter a harsh word about you, even though you know you are certainly no Saint. They will drop anything they have to do, if they love you, and you need them. A Venus in Pisces lover is a hard act to follow!
Venus in Pisces Are Hopeless Romantics
Paige is a fiction writer, because she loves books and has always been an avid reader. Two of her books have been published, and sales on the second one really changed her lifestyle for good. She lives in the Tampa, FL area, in her own town home near the water.
Paige is a quiet person at times, and likes to live in her imagination, as readers sometimes do. But at other times, Paige is the life of the party, and one of the best storytellers around. Venus represents our social life, and since the Pisces symbol has two fish swimming in different directions, you can expect a Venus in Pisces person to have both a quiet and outgoing side to their personality.
Paige is a hopeless romantic, and a little bit old fashioned. In her heart of hearts, she really believes that some day she will meet a wonderful man, who will sweep her off her feet, marry her, and their lives will go forward, happily ever after. Paige has let men take advantage of her sympathetic nature, and has been very hurt by this-- an issue with Venus in Pisces people. They tend to be martyrs, and give too much to people who aren’t worth it. The last man she loved was something of a Peter Pan, looking for a Wendy. Paige let him move into her townhouse for a year, and kept hoping for the best.
They did have good times together, but somehow her inner self kept warning her that something was wrong. She got home from work one day only to find that “Peter”, actually packed up all his stuff and said goodbye in a Post It note! Can you imagine? Although very painful, perhaps this was the wakeup call Paige needed, because she had been a martyr before, and had to learn to be more discriminating about the men in her life. A Venus in Pisces person tends to see only the good in people, bless their kind hearts.
Sensitive and Shy in Love
Patrick is an oceanographer who is well versed in geology, navigation, the ocean’s tides, and exploration of the ocean and its topography. He is a very intense person, interested in metaphysical studies, and a spiritual person too. But Patrick finds his spirit the most at home by the sea.
Although he is an assertive in his field of work, Patrick is a bit shy when it comes to the dating world. He is romantic and sensitive, but has also been hurt before, and is at a point right now where he is afraid of rejection. Venus in Pisces people need clear and frequent demonstrations of love and affection from their partner, because they cannot imagine any other reason to be in a relationship like that unless it is for love. And in Pisces, love is elevated to its highest evolutionary development.
Lovers Fated to Meet
Paige had some vacation time and needed a break after her failed relationship with “Peter” and went to the Bahamas for a rest. She also found the sea very soothing, and was looking forward to the soft sand, warm water, palm trees, and beautiful colors that only nature provides. After a few days of reading, sunning at the beach, and taking long walks along the water at night, she felt much better. Unknown to her, Patrick was taking a working vacation about the same time, exploring the remains of the famous Bimini Road. The fact that a real road exists at the bottom of the ocean near the coast of Florida has fascinated not only oceanographers, but metaphysicians too, because they believe it may be a part of the lost continent of Atlantis.
Patrick was done for the day, sat down at the hotel bar to have a drink, and realized he was sitting next to Paige. Wow, she looked good! He wondered if she had a personality to match, and felt attracted right away. Did you ever look at a person and just KNOW they were important somehow, and that you were supposed to see them at just that moment? That’s what happened to Paige and Patrick. She got chills down her spine and thought, “Oh my God, he’s the one for me.” Patrick looked at Paige as if he had seen a ghost, and knew right then she was “the one.” How do you start a conversation when all this information is going through your head, and your senses? Very carefully! You can’t just come out and say what you are thinking yet.
At first they began to talk about the usual, casual things, and it helped that they were both staying at the same hotel, so they decided to have dinner after they both had a chance to go to their respective rooms to shower and dress. The restaurant at the hotel was lovely, right on the ocean, and it was a beautiful, moonlit night. Paige took great pains to dress her best, although Patrick was already convinced she looked like Aphrodite anyway. Paige never felt like all her senses were so alert when she first met someone. They got to learn more about each other. Paige played piano since she was a little girl, and loved classical music. Patrick liked to paint, and also to make ink sketches, and had actually sold a few pieces. Most people with Pisces Suns or Venus placements have artistic talents.
Relaxing at a beach bar
Were They Lovers in Another Life?
They found that both of them had psychic experiences. Paige had waking visions, and Patrick had lucid dreams. And they both had “hunches” that they knew must be followed up on. It was a really pleasant evening, and they walked along the beach after dinner. Patrick walked Paige to her room, and gave her a kiss goodnight. She thought her heart would jump out of her body. He began to walk away from her, then came back and handed her a few lovely shells and things he picked up on the beach during their walk. They shared one more breathtaking kiss, and made plans to spend the day together tomorrow. Patrick felt almost stunned as he walked to his room, no woman ever affected him like that! He got right to work drawing a sketch of Paige, to give her the next day.
They had a lot of fun together, but lots of interesting things were happening as Paige and Patrick went about their day. They were both happy to find that neither of them lived too far from the Bahamas, in fact, Patrick only lived about a half hour from Tampa, where Paige’s townhouse was. He did a lot of his work out of the Florida area, since it has so much water around it. Paige loved the sketch of herself that Patrick gave her earlier in the day, and he told her, “I never met anyone who vibrates as fast as you do.” Now, if you know anything about metaphysics; that makes sense to you, all matter vibrates, and we all vibrate to a Spiritual vibration. But someone we just meet doesn’t usually tune into us so deeply as to figure that out. We vibrate faster when we are happy.
Paige felt like she knew Patrick all her life. She didn’t feel like she had to act or be on her “good behavior”, and she knew she was safe with him. As they spent the day on the beach, they began to hold hands more, and to kiss, and it felt so free and natural. And yet they both said they didn’t want to rush into anything, and both understood each other’s explanations of why. Neither of them could rationally explain why they both felt like they came home when they were in each other’s arms. But sometimes rationality is overrated. They both felt safe, and happy, like it was meant to be for them. But that can be a little scary too.
Perfect for Each Other
The week went by fast, almost too fast, but there was no doubt that these two fell completely and totally in love. Paige had already put the shells Patrick gave her from their first walk on the beach on a silver anklet cord, as Venus in Pisces people are very sentimental. Paige talked about how she collected for her local food bank and coordinated donations to needy families in the Tampa area. Patrick worked for the Coast Guard one weekend a month; as there are always accidents or dangerous situations when people are trying to swim under the influence, or go out on the water in boats they do not know how to use properly. So they both had philanthropic sides too.
This romance seemed almost too good to be true, and like it had to be, both at the same time. Finally they had to sleep together, and their union was such a beautiful and spiritual experience, as it should be between two passionate and compassionate lovers who understand love in its fullest expression. If only everyone felt and understood that—they would understand what the real fuss about sex is about! It’s when two people become one, a ONE greater than themselves. Then they would lie side by side, and talk about spirituality, and how people relate to everyone in their lives, and how amazing it was how they met each other. They both believed life is eternal, and that everyone was reincarnated. They played around trying to guess when they had been together before; what other lives they had shared.
Soon they both had to get back to their lives, though they could hardly stand the thought of being separated even for a short time. Patrick had to stay behind on location for a few weeks, as he still had work to do on the Bimini Road project. They hated to part, and their last night together was a hard one. Even though they had plans to see each other again soon, it felt like they were being torn away from each other. Everything about this relationship seemed so intense. Paige always wore a little snake bracelet around her wrist, and Patrick borrowed it to wear until the next time he would see her again. At least a part of her could still be with him.
The weeks passed quickly, and Patrick was due to arrive at Paige’s house. They were both going crazy, remembering their lovemaking while in the Bahamas enough to drive them out of their minds. All Paige could think of was Patrick’s beautiful, curly black hair and big blue eyes. He could not get the vision of her long, blonde hair flying in the ocean breeze, or the trust and love he saw in her lovely green eyes. He arrived with Paige’s name tattooed on his upper arm, and an engagement ring in his hand. It was a gorgeous aquamarine stone, and it took Paige’s breath away. They decided they would stay in the Tampa area, since Paige’s job was there, and Patrick’s base of operations was nearby. They could buy a bigger place to live in later. But for now, it was time to get reacquainted again. Paige and Patrick fell into each other’s arms once again, and came home.
© 2015 Jean Bakula
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on May 29, 2019:
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Swavna on May 29, 2019:
This is beautiful!
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on March 28, 2018:
I feel bad that you are going through a hard time. A friend who bothers you this much isn't much of a friend, I would stay away. What good is a friend who you can't communicate with? That doesn't mean it's your fault.
I also had trouble finding your original question, though I see my answer here. It was in my Comments section on my account page, but when I came here to see your original issue, it got erased.
Mars in Gemini is a hard aspect to your planets in Pisces, so that can cause mixed emotions. I can't give medical advice, but have a brother who is bipolar. He can go from being charming to unreasonably angry in a matter of minutes, the mood swings are very severe. Mental health issues like this often present in our early 20's, so I don't know how old you are. Most people don't like the way medication dulls their senses, and it has to be watched closely by a doctor. I wish you all the best. Jean
MizuMizu on March 27, 2018:
Hi Jean, excuse me for the late response, I had trouble finding your post again.
Also, I won't be answering your questions only because after all this time it doesn't seem like there is any solid answer to give or much real information to go by besides a headache of indirect and some subtle nonsense. There's no real communication between me and this individual either. So I refuse to consider dealing with them and aim to possibly separate myself completely from their influence even if originally I wanted to be a supportive friend before having my insides mess up by that stupidity.
I'm tired and I hate what has happened and cannot be bothered to go in to detail.
Also my Gemini mars seems like it could be causing some real life problems for me. As I am wondering if I could have Bipolar for example even if I am controlled/not on pills. Idk what this is but I hate it, so tired with the damn world.
Oh right I already said I think I could be bipolar...this happens a lot too, the second guessing.like some odd memory issue or skipping.
Could just need discipline perhaps.
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on September 26, 2017:
Thanks so much!
valerie on September 26, 2017:
i hope and pray for you and your son, Jean. Bad people with bad intentions always get their due.
blessings! and i enjoy reading the rest of your blog.
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on September 26, 2017:
Thanks for your kindness. He identified with me so much, I think he felt my pain more than I did. I have scoliosis, and he used to cry when I had spasms. He was a wonderful man and I miss him so much. I had an emergency C-section when our son was born and had to be knocked out, so he wasn't in the delivery room. He would have been out cold on the floor:). We always understood each other well.
My son will prevail, the truth shall set us free, right? It's been awful though. Thanks for the encouragement. Take care. Jean
valerie on September 26, 2017:
hi jean, that's so sweet about the man who you were with that passed out from seeing you bleed. you are a very sweet person for not being angry from that as i've read and heard some people would be mean /cruel to those types, considering them weak. Youre a very kind person.
so sorry to hear about your son being betrayed by that woman. (read your comments and i couldnt help myself to comment)
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on July 01, 2017:
Pisces Venus is as I described above and trine the Pluto is powerful. The 4th rules home, real estate, Mothers. It's a good aspect. Scorpio in the 5th is about children, fun things, romances that don't lead to marriage (flings) and gambling. The Sun in the 8th is Scorpio's house, ruling death, insurance, wills, end of life stuff. It means you study any subject you are interested in to death. And with the Pisces Venus in the 9th, you are interested in education, religions, philosophies, and like to travel to other countries. I have several planets there. You read a lot too.
As far as the friend, even if the Pluto is in a good aspect to his Venus, he seems to have hurt you deeply, as you are sensitive. Was there a rivalry between you? A strong Pluto in your chart can intimidate others, I often get told that and have power struggles with women, even though I have a Venus, Mercury and Neptune trine to the Pluto. It's very powerful. All the aspects you suggest are possible culprits. So you helped him, then did he do something like not appreciate your help, or later say you didn't help?
You can only blame Gemini Mars if you actually KNOW what was done to cause this situation between you both. You can either try to talk it out. Or else it's getting to be an obsession, and you need to move on somehow. It's not worth the trouble it's causing you if it's not bothering him and you are having trouble functioning. You can try to discuss it and bring it out in the open, or maybe talk to a counselor about it. Try to keep your mind on other things, I believe you have enough interests. I don't know what else to say. Take care. Jean
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on May 27, 2017:
Hmm, let's think about this. By the way, I've been seeing you left messages, but sometimes they come through at the article and sometimes on the account page, and it takes me time to find them. Sorry about that. Sun in Pisces is so creative and kind, I don't know how a person could not get along with a Pisces. Venus in Taurus makes you very gentle and easygoing, as Taurus is ruled by Venus. Her Venus in Pisces goes well with your sun and venus. The Libra Moon should be fine, Libra is also ruled by Venus. She is creative and artistic, but may like to go out more than you do. You can never tell with Aquarius, but they are nonconformists, and in your own way, so are you, with that Pisces in you. I still think it's a hopeful situation though.I wonder what makes her so introverted. You are kind, maybe you need to approach her first. Admire something she's wearing, or give her an inexpensive gift of something small. She likes surprises. Good luck.
fatsowacko on May 25, 2017:
Hi Jean! This is a nice story! Thanks for sharing! Made my heart flutter! I agree with Pisces being so passionate with love. My sun is in Pisces and I feel that although I have my Venus in Taurus. I'm in love with a girl with Venus in Pisces but her Sun sign is Aquarius. I don't know how to approach her!!! I've seen her staring at me for a long time. I think her Aquarius Sun with Libra Moon makes her not in-tune with love or emotions? I'm not quite sure but she's very introverted and I really can't get through her.
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on November 16, 2016:
You are a truly kind person and I am happy to hear from you again. I didn't mean to lay all that on you, life's been tough the last few years.
I think it's always smartest to trust your intuition, and that's what you did. Woman can be really nasty, I hate to diss my own sex!
Having all that Pisces and the Scorpio in you, makes you so emotional and passionate most women would be happy to have you. Be careful not to drink or do recreational drugs if you are upset, another water sign problem. I'd like to see you with a women with lots of planets in Earth signs. Best of luck to you and thanks for the encouragement. All things must pass.
Tom on November 16, 2016:
I reread your response again which I am really greatful for and see how selfish I am when you've got it a lot worse presently.
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on November 14, 2016:
Don't beat yourself up so much. I have a Scorpio Ascendant too. It makes us appear a bit unapproachable and intimidating, but it doesn't bring out hate or negative vibes like that. It sort of makes us put up walls until we decide who to let into our lives. You have too many Pisces planets to feel hate
Tom Philbin on November 14, 2016:
I have Venus, sun and Jupiter in Pisces but Venus is in the 4th house and the others are in 3rd. Scorpio ascendent and also in 12th and Pluto's in Scorpio in 11th, north node 5th house taurus. Sagittarius stellium in 1st house Saturn Mars Moon Uranus, Neptune Capricorn 2nd, Mercury Aries 4th. I don't know why I wrote that. Scorpio ascendent fuels me with hate from my soft side that wants to love. I get taken for a fool and when all is gone and I'm paying child support, all my Pisces Venus can do is love in sympathy for these people who know not what they do, well they do know but they aren't evolved enough to realise that it damages them too, I suppose being brought up in a dysfunctioal house don't help if you can't get out of the brainwashing of childhood or your parents learned you. I want a traditional family. I let her go in love, there is a spiritual thing with Venus in Pisces, is it all that delusional, maybe its impractical, on a see saw of love and hate the fine line between scale bit polar, what's better is love but you can't deny the existence of the hate in order to overcome it, angels and demons inside, what do I choose, is there a middle path, yes its called being here. Oh she took me tantrically beyond space, above time and physical reality one spontaneous time and I was hooked and that is shat reality really is. Our higher selves and.I'm here little me squabbling in the earth ego delriven and overly attached to ideas and brainwashed lies: )
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on August 09, 2016:
Thanks so much Gloria! You made my day. Take care.
Gloria b on August 09, 2016:
My God my mouth dropped several times reading this because of how relatable everything was very well written and described
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on July 17, 2015:
Thanks for your kindness, Word55. I know a lot about Astrology, and I love to write. When I began at HP I wrote a lot of instructional articles, but found liked making up characters with the right Astrology traits, and writing stories. I want to join a fiction workshop, so maybe I can write more and make it more interesting for others to learn Astrology.
Al Wordlaw from Chicago on July 17, 2015:
Hi Jean, I like your "true from the heart" type of writing. Yes, we Pisceans are passionate and sentimental people. I've heard that we are wonderful overall lovers. The symbol of the Pisces is the fish going in opposite directions. Pisces must be careful because they can be going good, right and strong in a direction then suddenly turn around and go back in the opposite direction and lose its luster, chasing that which is not good for its soul. Pisces love everything about water; the sound, the look, reflection of the sun on it, the feeling of being in it for its freshness. So like fish, we love it... You did an excellent description of Venus in Pisces. You were on the money. Voted up!
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on July 16, 2015:
Venus in Pisces are so passionate about love. They are sentimental, and would do anything for somebody they love. My husband had Venus in Pisces, and was sweet to me all the 39 years we were together. Once I got stitches in my finger, and he passed out! He couldn't stand to see me in any kind of pain. It's a really compassionate and devoted kind of love.
peachy from Home Sweet Home on July 16, 2015:
My mom and my daughter are Pisces, they are passionate abt love
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on May 27, 2015:
Thank you Akriti, for taking the time to read and comment. Just because your Sun is in Pisces doesn't mean your Venus is though. Click the blue link at the end of the first paragraph, and see, your Venus could be in another sign. Every planet and your Moon is in its own sign in Astrology, people just don't understand that. Take care.
Akriti Mattu from Shimla, India on May 27, 2015:
i am a Piscean so had to read this :)
Voted up :)
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on February 05, 2015:
Well, the Sun is in a sign, and this is the sign where people's Venus is. My Dad was Pisces and Mom was Cancer, and they had their issues too. I think two water signs together don't have enough energy or drive to achieve their goals (having lived through it). I do believe they really loved each other, they just had trouble managing money and making decisions. You can see where your Venus is if you click the link in the first paragraph. Thanks for writing in.
peachy from Home Sweet Home on February 04, 2015:
awesome love story, my mom is pieces, my dad in cancer, both can't get along, she should have gone for venus
Jean Bakula (author) from New Jersey on February 01, 2015:
Hi Nell Rose,
I am Cancer, but have Mercury and Venus in Gemini, so understand the "vibe." I'm glad you stopped by! Take care,
Nell Rose from England on February 01, 2015:
Love the story, and yes vibrations! I always say its the aura that fits, but I love the way of saying vibrations that make people feel close! loved this, I am a Gemini, so split personality though! lol!