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Venus in Gemini Love

Jean teaches astrology, tarot & metaphysics. She is an author, ordained nondenominational minister, & member of the NJ Metaphysical Ctr.

Playful Gemini Couple in Love


Geminis in Love

Oh damn! Gabrielle left the house about ten minutes earlier, and just realized her “to do” list is still sitting on the kitchen counter. It’s a good thing she has Venus in Gemini, a quick, sharp mind which can think about many topics at once. Can she reconstruct the list? No problem. What was the plan? Oh, of course. Stop at the ATM to get some cash. Pick up the suit at the dry cleaners. Drop off the books at the library, along with the donation to the food pantry downstairs, which she coordinates for the Democratic Club. Pick up a few things at the supermarket; she already has her reusable bags in the trunk of the car, as she’s been a convert to reusable shopping bags for ten years now. She cares deeply about the environment. Environment. Hmm, oh, yes, the Letter to the Editor she wrote last night needs to be mailed. It’s all coming back now.

Stop at the bakery to get a fancy dessert to compliment that dinner she’s cooking for Gordon tonight. Maybe a few scented candles too. She needs to make a chiropractor appointment for herself, and one for a yearly check up for Gordon. Lists? Who needs lists? People with Venus in Gemini are walking wikipedias which update themselves every few minutes. It’s a wonder they can keep it all straight. And they will change their minds about everything several times anyway.

It's really easy to find out what astrology sign your Venus is in!

Gemini Lovers Crave Variety

People with Venus in Gemini crave variety in their social, intellectual and romantic lives. They are normally taking a course about something new, just to keep mentally active (as if they need to be more mentally active). These are people who love to socialize, get out and talk to other people. Even if they have a retiring Sun sign, they still like to be around others, in the middle of a group, just to keep up with the things other people are saying and doing. These are very witty people, and normally they are ruled by what they think, not by what they feel. This can vary, depending on other astrological positions in their horoscopes, but even a gentle Cancer with Venus in Gemini is likely to get upset about something, think it through by cleaning out a closet, and then continue on as if nothing happened.

Venus in Gemini people are intellects with very agile minds, so those minds must be kept busy. They love to read, see movies, just talk, talk, talk. And since they think about so many topics at one time with ease, they forget other people do not have this gift. It’s a good thing her BF also has Venus in Gemini. Gordon also discusses several subjects at one time, expecting others to keep up. Gabrielle can usually figure out what three of the things are, but gets others mixed up. He wants to walk the dog and then play racquetball? Or he wants to join a health club because he thinks walking the dog is not enough exercise. No, wait, he wants a new dog so the old dog has a companion, and he wants to join a health club with her. Silly. Why didn’t she understand that right away?

Relaxation is Needed


Geminis Have Two Great Loves in Their Lives

Since Gemini is the sign of the Twins, a person with this Venus placement will often have two great loves of their lives. Hopefully not at the same time, though this may be possible. Venus in Gemini people are capable of being faithful in a relationship, but they do get bored. So if the other person is wise, they will be sure to keep thinking of new places to go, new things to see. The Gemini in Venus lover is often attracted to another first on a mental level. If they are interested and respect this person for their intellect, the relationship can go somewhere. Since Gemini is an air sign, they are sort of refined (not prudish) and will not like crude jokes or any kind of racial slurs. If they see you stare at a handicapped person or different looking person or find you rushing them in some way; that could very well end your relationship right then and there.

Venus in Gemini people love to travel to see new vistas, to learn about new cultures, and live life on their own terms. I confess, I have Venus in Gemini, and adored both Henry David Thoreau and Margaret Mead; both were heros of mine when I was a teen. I was fascinated by the way she was so independent, and traveled all over the world to study people from other cultures, and to learn from them. I never got over Thoreau I guess, I still live in my little house deep in the woods. I was recently telling a friend about the directions our lives took compared to what we thought they would take when we were much younger, and she burst out laughing. She said she could see woodlands from every window and doorway of my home, and that I was doing a good job at seeing the world too! Sometimes it is nice to know that our core values didn’t change throughout all of our life challenges.

Gemini Minds Keep Going

Venus in Gemini people are free thinkers. They like to view an issue from varied and original perspectives. This can make it hard on them though, because they also want to be fair, and can see the good in each perspective. So they waver back and forth, and have trouble making decisions. They need to just take their time. It is also a good idea to get them to relax more, because a mind going at that speed can really frazzle out a person. Venus in Gemini people do need down time, so meditation or long walks are good for them. They have trouble turning off their thoughts at bedtime, and also trying to focus in on one thing only. But if that one thing is important, once they do focus on it, think lazer beam. They will be brimming with ideas on whatever the topic may be, and have unique thought processes

A Love of Math and Word Games


Gemini Career Ideas

Gordon probably loves to play word games too, on those rainy afternoons when outdoor activities are not a good idea. He’s a busy guy too, he volunteers to teach young kids soccer on Saturdays, works with older people on literacy and English as a Second Language classes, and studies martial arts. He is as well read as Gabrielle, and they spend lots of time discussing plot lines and characters. Gordon is the guy everyone calls to fix their computers, he actually understands how they work. Both probably dreamed of being writers, or may actually write as much as they can. They are both outgoing flirts, but their flirting is usually harmless, and not to be taken seriously. Both really know how to turn on the charm.

A Venus in Gemini person would make a great travel agent, and may be one who holds down several part time jobs instead of one full time one. They are well spoken, and usually do well in the arts, writing, speaking (if the Sun isn’t in a shy sign), music and drama. Many actors and lead singers are Gemini or have Venus placements there. They are refined, intuitive, clever, original, friendly, and have the strength of their convictions when they express their ideas. They like spiritual subjects, since they are curious people and enjoy mystical things, being very open minded. Venus in Gemini people have good relationships with siblings and neighbors, and generally like it when everyone gets along well.

The Couple in Love


Gemini Lovers Need Space

Since Gemini is a mutable or changeable sign, this placement can be an indicator of more than one big love affair or marriage in life, but the natives are capable of staying in one if it is satisfying. The key is in finding a partner who shares interests, and also has enough of their own to not be clingy. Venus in Gemini people do not like to be bogged down or burdened with people, they like to flit about alone at times. If twins run in the family, this is also a sign that if Gordon and Gabrielle do take the plunge to become parents, twins may be in the future.

These children will know a lot more than most their age, because this couple will just carry on with life, taking the kids along all the time. These children will know how to behave in a museum, library or elegant restaurant by the time they are three years old. This couple has a bright, if busy future, and will remain happy as they grow together and find new interests and new dreams. Even if they grow in different directions, they will continue to learn from each other, and will find this interesting, whereas a different couple could find that a negative in a relationship. Their positive and continually different attitudes about life will take them far in life.

Questions & Answers

Question: How is the Gemini women and Virgo man marriage?

Answer: Both of you are good communicators, so you would be able to talk through your problems and interests. You are both intelligent and get bored easily. Gemini and Virgo are what we call squared aspects, so it's a challenge, but sometimes that's good in romance. I can't really tell more with this much info. You are both sociable and he may be more critical. Air and Earth is not the best combination, but all of your planets are in a Zodiac sign, in one of 12 houses with 3 or 4 meanings, I have no ascendants or aspects (the distance between the planets), and everyone has at least 15 major ones. You would have to get Natal Birth Charts done, or at least read some of the answers I gave others to update what little you know about astrology. I can't foresee what a marriage will be like with only Sun signs, and birth charts are not done from here and not for free. I do write many instructional astrology articles so if you look up your birth data on an astrology site, you could benefit from reading some of those.

Question: I recently asked "How does it affect your past lover(s) when your Venus is in Gemini?" but to be honest I don't even remember what I meant to ask, maybe I should have framed the question better. It's probably something to do with how past lover affected me or my life when my Venus is in Gemini? Also since you mentioned about nodes, does it also have a correlation in any way with my South Node is in Leo?

Answer: Well, if you have Venus in Gemini now, it's just for this life. But I understand what you are trying to say (I also have Venus in Gemini)! You may very likely have two big "loves of your life" or "soulmates." Just hope it's not at the same time--very confusing and quite awkward, there are stories I could tell! I was blessed with two great loves, one when very young, and the man I married for 34 years (whom I met while seeing the first one).

You are right about the nodes, the South one is about Past lives, and the North one is about this life. They are usually opposite each other in the zodiac sign, but not 100% of the time. We are all supposed to be trying to balance our karma from past lives using the direction or guide of where the North node is in this life. So with the S. node in Leo, in other lives, you were strong, very devoted in love, very protective, and romantic. You showed your heart on your sleeve, and were dramatic. Your North node is probably in Aquarius for this life. So you are a bit aloof in love and are attracted to others on an intellectual level at first.

That's true of the Venus in Gemini too. So, with two air signs, Gemini and Aquarius, you always were attracted mentally to others. Gemini wants to talk a relationship to death or at least will air all the problems, and it's good to get them out in the open. It's fun and light-hearted, even if other planets are in signs that make you more serious. Aquarius loves, but needs to kept interested, and needs a bit more freedom.

This may have been confusing since I talked about Venus and Nodes, two different, but sort of related in love and past life astrology ideas... If I didn't answer this so it made sense (very possible) you can go to my Profile page and email me through, and we can discuss it more personally. That's open to anyone with a question, by the way.

Question: What is a relationship like between a Leo woman and Taurus man?

Answer: I really can't tell by just Sun signs, astrology is a lot more complicated than that. These are signs that are both fixed, or stubborn. Leos are bossy and like to be treated like royalty. They are a tad lazy. Taurus is hard working and what you see is what you get. But he is romantic, if not in a showy way. He is faithful. It's called a square aspect, so there can be sexual attraction. There will be challenges, but other factors can make them worth it.

Question: How does it affect your past lover(s) when your Venus is in Gemini? (Additional info if needed, Sun in Taurus)

Answer: If you want to know about past lives, it's the nodes in the chart which matter, it has nothing to do with Venus. I have Venus in Gemini. I am sociable, a writer, I like to learn, I have been in love with two people at the same time, and communication is very important to me in a relationship. I want to talk about everything. If your South or North Node is in Gemini, that's different, If you find out, come on back.

© 2015 Jean Bakula

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