I'm me. I have been married for 22 years, which says a lot for resiliency and compromise, I am the mother of two awesome boys, ages 4 and 6-almost 7), I am active duty military, and struggle with the balancing act of all of these things. I like to focus my limited energy on family fun, so my house is almost always a disaster, though we just purchased a Roomba and the floors are alwasy vacuumed now. One step in the right direction. We have very long winters, which I can't handle, so my summer adventures have to drag me through the blahs.